Is auto-cum a must?

[Anonymous]

during anal sex, must the bottom be able to auto-cum (meaning he is able to shoot off cum without using his hands to jerk off).

if he is not able to auto-cum, does that mean he is not sexually capable or not sexually satisfied fully?

[MikeW]

Where do you guys come up with these ideas? From watching porn???

For gods sake… I would say that MOST guys do NOT "auto-cum" on a regular basis. In fact, I'd say it is down-right rare in most instances.

Sex is not a "one size fits all" thing, guys. What feels good to you is what feels good to you. You do NOT have to compare it to *anyone* else's experience.

And besides, SEX is just SEX… where as MAKING LOVE is something that may look somewhat the same but is completely different.

What I'm getting at is being "sexually satisfied" is one thing, but being emotionally satisfied is another -- and the latter is far more important than the former.

[Darius]

I've had hands free ejaculations and honestly I prefer it when a hand is around my cock. It's more intense to me.

[LJay]

OP, when placing such inquiries in front of this forum, please cite the specific reference in Boyhowdie's Standard and Excellent Manual of Regulations, Hypothetical Expectations, and Customary Obligations for the Homosexual Male, most current edition, including page, paragraph and line number in your reference.

[FRENCHYMAMOUR]

bonjour cher ami, tu me fais sourire d' une telle interrogation.
aimes et tu verras !

[Borg69]

I kinda thought hands free ejaculation was kinda like Bigfoot sightings... something only a friend of a friend heard about from a second cousin's coworkers neighbors uncle saw.

[TwisttheLeaf]

I've done it. It definitely can be done. But.... It's extremely rare. In fact, I would say that it's far more common to not be able to cum at all while bottoming, even with the assistance of a hand.

[Laysh]

I want to experience it at least once... Its what other people said, its pretty rare. I've almost done it once with one of my dildos though.

[lonley]

That would be awesome to do that with out using your hands !!

[LJay]

When is Virge going to chime in about the Aneros?