Why Do They Do It?

[ArthurBallsack]

Why do they do it? I'm into sex dating and I experience nothing but insane behaviour from others.

I joined two dating sites for sex dating and I get nothing but madness and somebody else posted something on here about the same sort of thing so I know it doesn't only happen to me.

One dating site, I've had lazy guys that can't even thank me for contacting them when they are not interested and a message with a "no thanks but thanks anyway" costs nothing and it only takes a few seconds to write and send. Others are so fussy where they are only interested in other guys as old as 30 when there's plenty of other handsome guys in their 40's like me and I'm 42. There's also a lot of handsome guys in their 50's and 60's.

I've had more annoying shit. Time-wasters. A lot of them reply to me saying they are interested and then after a week they ignore me for no reason. One guy told me he was interested in me and we got to know each other for a month first and just when the time was ready for him and me to meet and have our fun together, he turned me down because he said I was too old for him. I wonder why the fuck he never told me that a month back instead of wasting my time for a month. Since then I've had more guys not replying to thank me for contacting them when they are not interested and I've had more ignoring me for no reason.

It gets worse. I wrote to a guy last night and he replied to me saying how much he wants to suck me off and have me suck him off with deep anal the works. He also asked me if I can travel to Yorkshire when his profile clearly says he's in London. He claims to be in two locations. I replied to him tell him how it would be nice to meet him for sexual fun and after that he replied to me saying how much he's looking forward to meeting me and he deleted his profile afterwards. Why, why, why would a guy delete his profile (where I can't contact him back) when he's interested in me? I've had it with these dating sites because they are full of insane people that do nothing that makes any sense.

The one telling me he was interested in me for a month and then telling me I'm too old for him and the one that deleted his profile after contracting me while being interested in me are the most insane. Where do these people come from and why do they do nothing but piss so many people about in the most insane ways?

They give these type of sites a bad name when the people running them are probably doing a good job but it's not their fault they have insane and time-wasting bastards as members.

[Rareboy]

Delete the apps.

Go out in the real world and hook up with someone.

[ArthurBallsack]

Delete the apps.

Go out in the real world and hook up with someone.

That is what I'm planning on doing. The dating sites are garbage. I bet all these time-wasters and weirdos want to do is date their porn. Bloody wankers.

I realized I made a typing error in my other message. In my sixth paragraph I said, "and the one that deleted his profile after contracting me". I said "contracting" instead of contacting".

[Virge]

Rareboy said it all. If you don't believe it hang out here a week and read how many guys come here whining about the same shit you're whining about.

You depending on dating apps makes you as big of a tool as the people you're meeting that way. Don't blame it all on them.

[Borg69]

I think a lot of times guy's think they can use those apps to order guys like they would a pizza with specific toppings, hot and ready in 30 minutes or less, delivered.

Those apps may get your foot figuratively in the door, but you still have to put in the time to get to know them in person and see if there's any mutual chemistry and attraction. There are no drive thru Windows to life experiences.