02-21-2015, 10:17 PM
I am in tears now as I'm writing this because the thought of my boyfriend being mistreated by his family is enough to set me off. I recently came out to everyone about a month ago and have been going with this guy for a few weeks now. The only people I have not come out to are my family. I am 17 soon to be 18 and he is 19.
Basically, my boyfriend's step dad is a homophobe and he always says horrible and nasty things about him. Take tonight for example, his mother invited him out to go for a drink with her and his sister and the step dad shouted at his mother for inviting him out and said no one likes him and my boyfriend tells me it makes him feel so awful.
I have never met his family but what I fail to understand is why his mother is staying with such an awful and nasty man that is treating HER son like this. He is so wonderful and spoils me rotten with all these gifts. He needed to drop out of doing A levels to get a retail job in order to pay for a flat so he can move out. I cannot bear to see him suffer like this, and this is only from what he tells me, I have never witnessed it myself so I cannot possibly imagine how he feels. The worst part is I can't ask my parents for advice because I haven't come out to them. I'm sure they'll take it okay because my dad's brother's son is gay and older than me, I am just a bit worried about it though.
What can I do to help my boyfriend?
Basically, my boyfriend's step dad is a homophobe and he always says horrible and nasty things about him. Take tonight for example, his mother invited him out to go for a drink with her and his sister and the step dad shouted at his mother for inviting him out and said no one likes him and my boyfriend tells me it makes him feel so awful.
I have never met his family but what I fail to understand is why his mother is staying with such an awful and nasty man that is treating HER son like this. He is so wonderful and spoils me rotten with all these gifts. He needed to drop out of doing A levels to get a retail job in order to pay for a flat so he can move out. I cannot bear to see him suffer like this, and this is only from what he tells me, I have never witnessed it myself so I cannot possibly imagine how he feels. The worst part is I can't ask my parents for advice because I haven't come out to them. I'm sure they'll take it okay because my dad's brother's son is gay and older than me, I am just a bit worried about it though.
What can I do to help my boyfriend?