Varies...a lot. I've done the "wham bam thank ya man/ma'am" thing before, and had less than 10 minute sessions...up to maybe a couple of hours of switching between anal/vaginal and oral. I would say the average session with a girl is slightly longer than an average session with a guy...not sure why?!
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Well........if we are leaving out foreplay.
Depending on what Brian "The Wonder Tongue" is doing to me about 10-20 minutes. Less if the foreplay was exceptionally hot. ( I am older give me a break.)
He can go about 15-30 depending on what I am doing to him.
Interesting side note, He was never able to finish with oral..................until me! Sorry. Too much?
I still think the best part of sex is touch and snogging.
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It is entirely possible that the mode is low as well as the mean, making the two minutes plus both likely and credible.
That "gay" has become appropriated in the past by a certain segment or subculture is a verity. That sex and its frequency and duration has also become subject expectations that range somewhere between hedonistic and romanticized.
Straight sex is likely no less subject to such impositions of near-at-hand projections. The young and involved likely would have expectations that their present lives represent some larger population, even the majority. The truth is, the frequency declines significantly in longer relationships, and is increasingly less representative of the mean.
As for duration, among straights and gays, there is such a heavy influence of quick and furtive sex among the young prior to settling down, those numbers must mathematically drive the mean and mode.
I don't find the number to be either surprising or daunting.
And, the normal bonds of privacy that usually prevent casual friends from discussing such matters is a welcome social modesty. There are more than a few men and women who use such conversation as a sort of braggadocio thing.
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I duno… in my youth, having quick orgasms was fairly common but as I got older sexual activity became longer. In my 40s and 50s making love typically lasted at least an hour or more. All sorts of variables in that, of course. Now I typically set aside an hour to two hours for self pleasuring. I love "edging" myself. If I had an on-going partner, I'm sure that's the way I'd want to do it most of the time.
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Everything depends on the circumstances, a quickie can be 30/ 45 mins or longer sessions, like edging, with penetration or not, but I rather to not ejaculate to keep going unless I want to or is requested, so that means I don't finish?
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Jeez Mike! Why did you have to bring Morrison into it? 2 minutes, 50 seconds indeed! That could take me a week Ooooooooooooooooooooooh!
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If you measure from starting to undress to lying in each others arms after sex, anything from 30 mins to 2 hours,
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