My Boyfriend kissed his "ex" in front of me

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Well...he may very well have other boyfriends...or fuck buddies...it is not uncommon....

If he does..there probably is nothing you can say or do that will change that. If you force it....he might just lie to you to get what he wants....

There are a few flashing red lights here that I don't even want to touch so let me ask...IF what you suspect is true...would you be OK moving forward with him and accepting it?...or is this a dealbreaker for you?

In the meantime...I would strongly suggest getting out more in your own country and maybe meeting some guys...just to have a support group and some friends who know you are gay. Who knows...you might even fall in love...and then you will gain another perspective of this guy....