Bitterness on Gay Speak

[JackTX]

I harbor some very old unforgiven slights that, although I hardly dwell on them, remain apart of my character. But the reason they do so is because I'm quite certain that the people who perpetrated them have NO CLUE about their culpability and probably never will have. So, although it would be good for me, perhaps, to "forgive and forget," for me its just not possible. Every time I think of this person I get pissed off. So, I just don't think of them.

I could have written that about my mother.

I don't fight with my partner though. I think you guys hit on something, because he will own it even if he didn't do anything, just to resolve it. It's very hard to be mad at that.