Being recognized as gay...

[phillyboy1234]

This has to do with you being new to the forum. It happens to everyone (randomly) until they reach 50 posts.

I didn't realize it was 50 posts!

Anywho...to the OP- any thoughts on what you want to do?

[cbissbort]

I didn't realize it was 50 posts!

Anywho...to the OP- any thoughts on what you want to do?

Welllllll.... I already have ordered some shirts and a paracord rainbow bracelet. Hopefully that'll help some, but I'm not entirely sure. The semester is just about over, about a month left, so it might not get put to good use until August sadly

[phillyboy1234]

Welllllll.... I already have ordered some shirts and a paracord rainbow bracelet. Hopefully that'll help some, but I'm not entirely sure. The semester is just about over, about a month left, so it might not get put to good use until August sadly

Please don't let this stop you. You are right that planning for next semester might be good, but look at the summer:

- Do you live in or near a big city?

- Will you be going away?

Might be able to use the summer to get started!

[cbissbort]

Please don't let this stop you. You are right that planning for next semester might be good, but look at the summer:

- Do you live in or near a big city?

- Will you be going away?

Might be able to use the summer to get started!

I'm taking 16 semester hours over the summer and beginning a new bulking cycle designed to get my at competition level by spring 2016. Essentially, for the next three years, I'll only have free time to go places when the university is closed/on break. This is why I'm looking for ways to find guys to date who go to my university, pretty much anyone else is unfeasible given my schedule.

Also, by the time spring '16 rolls around, I should be doing quite a bit more modeling. I'll probably be traveling to LA and NYC for shoots several weekends each month.

[Borg69]

So I bought myself a rainbow paracord (would be great for a tourniquet) and a couple shirts that I thought were witty...
"Yes, I'm from Texas... No, I'm not a steer..."
"YOU SUCK... I like that in a guy."
And a custom one that I used my photoshop skills to make a very, very nice design (if I do say so myself). It says "BULK" with a rainbow gradient for the letters above an absolutely GORGEOUS guy that I made sketch-like. There's a triangle that underlines "BULK" and goes behind the guy. I'd post a link to it, but I'm still so fresh to the forums that I haven't fulfilled the post limit for posting links. Also, the system seems to want moderators to review my posts before they are published? Not sure why, but apparently I have stuff in the Mod queue, so it hasn't been posted yet.

Thanks for all the advice guys, please keep it coming, I'll take as much as I can get. (double entendres not withstanding haha)

If you go too crude you run the risk of coming across as a player/whore and will attract the wrong kind of guys.

[cbissbort]

If you go too crude you run the risk of coming across as a player/whore and will attract the wrong kind of guys.

Exactly why I planned on only getting a couple and only wearing them sparingly. The bracelet I will wear almost always, unlike the shirts. They'll be the only graphic tees I own, so they'll have a low probability of being worn.

[meridannight]

Apparently, you missed the parts where I said I'd never even consider it. You should read my post more thoroughly before going ahead and overreacting as you have done. Until you do that, I believe I will continue to converse with the others on this thread, all of whom have been exceedingly helpful. Good day sir.

i saw those parts. that's not what i was reacting to. i posed a situation, and you offered your ''solution'' as if that was what i had meant by it. that part was what i was reacting to.

my English language is pretty clear on what was behind my reaction:

having some anonymous person on the internet impose such a warped line of thought on mine does not go down well with me.

and:

Ah the classic stalemate: "need a guy to show other guys who all think I like girls that I like guys."

that was never there in what i wrote. that was your warped interpretation. and by interpreting my post in that light you made it look like such a scenario was what i had in mind.

and if you'd never do such a thing, why come up with it? what was the whole purpose of typing such nonsense then?

[cbissbort]

i saw those parts. that's not what i was reacting to. i posed a situation, and you offered your ''solution'' as if that was what i had meant by it. that part was what i was reacting to.

my English language is pretty clear on what was behind my reaction:



and:


that was never there in what i wrote. that was your warped interpretation. and by interpreting my post in that light you made it look like such a scenario was what i had in mind.

and if you'd never do such a thing, why come up with it? what was the whole purpose of typing such nonsense then?

That's nice dear, I've moved on. If you'd care to no longer reply, I'd appreciate it. Others have been extremely helpful, whereas you have been supremely the opposite. Good day.

Edit: Also added you to my ignore list. Not sure if that'll stop you from posting, but it's worth a shot. I'd rather continue on with the others in this thread, all of whom have given me really good advice, unlike you. Hopefully, I won't have to deal with this again, but I'm not entirely sure how this ignore list works soooo...

[MikeW]

[Kenny221]

Hi Cbiss!

I know what you're talking about. While I may not be exactly the most masculine guy around, no body really ever expects me to be gay, and while lacking the gaydar ( and gaywaves , as my friends call it...you know, like sonar but gay sonar) I've been having the exact same problem.

I like more masculine guys like myself, and it's tough to know and let know others that I'm interested. However, for your accessory thing, I think you should get a dogtag.

"A dogtag?" You may ask. I mean, if you think about it, it's pretty perfect. It looks good with any jacket, it looks masculine, and it looks hot! Besides, if you don't want it to be too painfully obvious that you're gay, you can opt for a gay bear flag which is more lesser known to the general public.



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