New and just saying hi

[Bikkie]

Hiya,

I'm a 20 y/o gay English guy, and I want to reach out to some people to just chat. Frankly I've become pretty disappointing in the LGBT scene. It seems that people want to assert their sexuality now before it's 'too late', not giving any thought to longevity. I guess this attutide is seen as obnoxious by some people, and I feel myself becoming included in them.

I really don't want to dislike my sexuality, and I hate the looming cloud over my head that seems to keep hovering there, telling me that my passivity is bad. But, I have a few diagnosed mental health issues, and for the most part that's just... extremely hard for me.

Overall, I'm seeking out gay people online to just chat to and share my experiences with, and them with me, without nude pictures being everywhere, y'know.


Ye sorry if that was a bit gloomy... :p
I love cats, though!
(and pizza)

[BlueStar]

Nice to meet you

[AlexBravo]

Hi! Nice to meet you and I understand your point about the gay life.
welcome to GS!

[Pyromancer]

Welcome to GS!

No dick pics, I swear...but and ...Definitely!!

[CaptainAwesome]

Welcome to GS! Hope you have a great time here.

[Albie]

Welcome. I love cats. What is with the ?

[MikeW]

Hiya,
....Ye sorry if that was a bit gloomy... :p

Nothing to be sorry about! Not gloomy at all. Actually what you're saying is fairly common around here. Please, just hang out with us when you have the time. All in all we're a friendly bunch. If anyone sends you un-welcome pix, let some of us older geezers know... That's not what this forum is about. We want this to be a safe place to do exactly what you're saying, chat and get to know other people. So, welcome to Gay Speak!

[yousir]

How do you mean "assert their sexuality before its too late"?

[Watermark]

Hi and welcome!

[East]

Hi! Welcome to GS

As for your assertions...gay people are no different than straight people....some want a commitment and marriage...others don't....

Your complaint is a common one actually on every gay board I have seen..but if so many people have the same complaint about the "others" ....why don't they meet each other? There are alot of them...seems to me they would bump into each other or connect somewhere along the line?

I would actually fall into your obnoxious category...all I ever wanted was sex when I was younger and I got alot of it...and today I am in a relationship of 29 years....

I hope you meet people here that you can connect with...no nude pics of any of the members so no worries about that...

Again...welcome