Gay or Not????

[thebusinessboy]

Hi, I posted something similar before

Hey, I need advice as I am really really confused atm, Well I am 21 years old and am unsure whether I am gay or not, ever since I hit puberty I have watched and masterbated over gay porn but after I had cummed I had a guilty feeling and had to masterbate over women to get rid of this feeling instantly, the first time I masterbated was over a gay tv freeview when I was 13, I have had sexual encounters with other guys but after I had that same guilty feeling, its like during it im gay and afterwards im not, plus I can get hard over gay porn without touching myself whereas with straight porn I need to physically get it up, I recently trie to have sex with a woman but couldn't get it up, I thought it was because I masterbate too much but its happened twice now, and I find myself camming with guys and masterbating with them and then finding an excuse not to cum so I don't have this guilty feeling,

I have no religious beliefs or anything either, I do still watch gay porn regularly but afterwards I have to watch straight porn right afterwards to get rid of this guilty feeling

Thanks, any advice would be greatly appreciated

[Pyromancer]

You posted this last month, almost word for word, in your thread, "Am I Gay" --- you got a lot of well-thought out responses and engaged in some discussion --- so I'm not sure why you're posting this again? What more can we tell you?

I'm willing to offer my personal opinion which is just that, MY opinion, no one else's, so take it for what it's worth:
-I think that you're either bi or gay, not sure which, but probably bisexual
- I think your problem is not defining your sexuality, but rather guilt about straying from what you perceive to be the "societal norm"

You need to discuss this with a professional counselor or social worker -
-this is an NHS article on how to access mental health services - I believe that the NHS will cover this but you need to inquire -

http://www.nhs.uk/nhsengland/aboutnhsser...vices.aspx

[Butterfingers]

At 21 I thought the same way, I was only gay while doing gay things, then I would go back to str8, I convinced myself that I was str8 because I could perform with a female, it was not the thrill I got from a guy, but I could do
it, like passing a test.
My friend, gay is ok, accept yourself as you are. If dudes turn you on and girls don't, you are gay.