Looking for a job that I can obey or being used by men

[alexhouseboy]

I am a little bit sub and I love being used in hard jobs or house jobs by men

[Jay]

I am a little bit sub and I love being used in hard jobs or house jobs by men

Um...how about construction site?

[Bowyn Aerrow]

The Master/slave relationship can have it where the master insists the slave maintains a job outside of the house, and that income is gathered by the Master for the Master to use for the household.

Understand having a bitchy/cranky/dom boss is not the same thing as having a Master. Nor is having a partner who orders you about and takes takes takes and takes some more. This is just abuse - and abusive relationships never end well.

Most newbies to the Dom/sub, Master/slave life style have fantasy notions about what will happen - seems to me you have this fantasy in your head about the perfect Dom/sub work relationship - I have bad news for you, your fantasy most likely will never pan out.

I strongly advise you to seek literature on the Dom/Sub lifestyle - no not porn, or erotic fiction. https://www.google.com/?gws_rd=ssl#q=Dom...+lifestyle is as good a start as any.

You need to get a clear idea of what it is that attracts you to this sort of thing, then work with it. You also need to understand your limits (everyone has limits) - the worst thing in the world to be is a 'no limits slave' which is a strong indicator that you have been broken - badly.

If you study up on Dom/sub, Master/slave BDSM roles a bit, learn a bit of the science and psychology of the matter then you most likely will figure out exactly how to go about attaining what it is you need - not so much what you want (wanting fantasies is a bad thing) - but what you need in order to satisfy your sub nature.

Good luck.

The Master/Slave relationship is not all about giving orders, but also about doing things for the slave to protect the slave, nurture aspects of the slave to growth, to provide for the slave in all areas of life (Physical, Emotional, Intellectually and Spiritually).

[Pyromancer]

Lol are you looking for a job or a Dom? I'm more than a little bit sub but I confine it to the bedroom...but seriously, maybe you'd be happy in the military or something like that...?

[alexhouseboy]

What exactly I am looking for is someone who needs a house boy to clean the house and do jobs in and out of the house for a little payment

[trywait]

What exactly I am looking for is someone who needs a house boy to clean the house and do jobs in and out of the house for a little payment

in other words...the male version of a chambermaid

[Jay]

Oh, that kind of job. Sorry.

I don't know much about this master/slave stuff. I understand if a person wants to have a 'sexy naughty fetish" time (bedroom role playing) but no offense, why would you want to be used 24/7 as a sexual slave etc. by another person? Honest question, do you find it enjoyable to be powerless and all? Or do I get the concept wrong?

[happyschizoid]

I think i could play either roll with the right person.