05-01-2015, 08:18 PM
Pyromancer Wrote:If I knew that my roommate had a crush on someone, I'd be strictly hands-off with that guy no matter if I was attracted to him or not. Also, the age difference may not bother you, but it might bother him.[MENTION=22470]Pyromancer[/MENTION] raises a good point; go easy on the flatmate a.) you may be unintentionally leading him on by suddenly accepting his invites and b.) the way you let him down could impact how they collectively decide how to deal with you. If he still sees you as a nice guy he may be okay with the one you like pursuing something with you, but if he thinks you're a prick, he may discourage it. and c.) golden rule. How would you feel if you were him?
I agree with John and the others, you need to simply ask him out and see what his response is.
Best of luck.