it is always so difficult (a birthday present)

[East]

I have been giving the gift of massage for some years now...and everyone loves it....especially my BF who comes back glowing and very happy to be so relaxed.

Not the "happy ending" massage...legitimate one hour full body massage and also throw in a 1/2 hour foot massage.....

[Bookworm]

it isnt so easy... "what would you like to have?" - nothing ... and it has been always the same, lol

I'd certainly be tempted to go with this option, and give him nothing but a birthday card - see how he reacts! :biggrin:

It's always difficult buying for people who never want anything and appear to have it all anyway.

How about vouchers for a particular store you know he shops in so he can choose the gift himself? Not very inspiring I know but at least he can choose something himself?

[himself]

What's wrong with socks?

[mrex]

thanks guys... i know now what im going to buy. i just remembered when i read your suggestions that he doesnt have that kind of a shoulder bag he has been looking for. hope i can find something... if not, then a book and something else.