Do you need to be 'broken in'?

[Camfer]

Himself, I hope you will be able to take your time and go at this again in a better way for you. It can be a very interesting and pleasurable experience. Not everything is for everybody, but the process of gaining self awareness is a never ending adventure.

...and sometimes a nerve ending adventure!

[Anocxu]

Himself?
Howe's your under-part doing?
I hope you're healing up ok.

Not to traumatize you anymore.. but...

Have you squatted over a hand mirror to .... review the damage?

I hope he's ok...

[Virge]

After seeing [MENTION=21156]Anocxu[/MENTION] 's comment I had to go bad and read the OP to find out what he was talking about...

Himself said, "He started off gentle, then he just rammed it in and I screamed. It really burned. I was scared - I thought I was going to have to go to hospital but the pain quickly died away. "

You didn't mention if he was large, medium or small but I don't think that really is a factor. It's all about technique and how much time and foreplay a guy who's about to top puts into getting the bottom ready for it.

The only time a guy hurt me like that he had a rabbit size weenie...so I conclude size isn't the problem.

One the other end of the spectrum..... I've learned topping with my guy, i can take things real slow, put some intense foreplay on him, keeping him edging the whole time and he can take it with no lube... and I'm not small...

[himself]

I'm still alive. The burning was inside me. I don't think I could get a good look in there. I looked at my asshole. I couldn't get a good look at it because my head doesn't go the whole way round but I didn't see anything horrific. It is no longer sore, I think. Sometimes, I think I can feel pain but I'm not quite sure if I'm imagining it. I was violently ill on Saturday and now my digestive system is a bit messed up, so that could also be causing me discomfort. Not that there is much discomfort. Nothing interesting ever happens to me so I'd be very surprised if there were complications, as that would probably be 'interesting'.

I would like to apologise for spamming this place and wasting people's time, but I assume the people posting on this thread are just glad to have something to do so, instead, I shall say, "You're welcome."

Would this thread be more exciting if I said I weren't okay?

[Anocxu]

I'm still alive. The burning was inside me. I don't think I could get a good look in there. I looked at my asshole. I couldn't get a good look at it because my head doesn't go the whole way round but I didn't see anything horrific. It is no longer sore, I think. Sometimes, I think I can feel pain but I'm not quite sure if I'm imagining it. I was violently ill on Saturday and now my digestive system is a bit messed up, so that could also be causing me discomfort. Not that there is much discomfort. Nothing interesting ever happens to me so I'd be very surprised if there were complications, as that would probably be 'interesting'.

I would like to apologise for spamming this place and wasting people's time, but I assume the people posting on this thread are just glad to have something to do so, instead, I shall say, "You're welcome."

Would this thread be more exciting if I said I weren't okay?

Well I'm glad you're doing better...,

[AndyBB]

I made this mistake, of thinking you had to be broken in. A "friend" told me to take large cocks early to break me in, then I would be able to take any size. Obviously this isn't the case, and I had to endure some very painful sex because of this.

As others have said, lots of lube and take it slow. No ramming in balls deep as I had, just slowly inch it in until the he feels you relax and he can enter you fully.

[LJay]

Himself, you have not wasted anyone's time. A lot of people here could probably tell you of similar experiences where they had absolutely no one to alk to about what happened. You may want to look for a friendly doctor or gay clinic where you can get things checked, but more importantly, where you can get some honest talk about the way things are. You should commend yourself for speaking up.

Glad you are feeling better, for sure.

[Anocxu]

(So I'm being evil..
I'm resurrecting this thread for the selfish reason of not seeing Himself around that much lately.. I love the guy..he's a straight shooter )
(Here goes)
[MENTION=22336]himself[/MENTION]
Hey buddy..
Havn't had a casual chat with you lately..

Was wondering how things are going..
If you've healed up ok and back on the 'pony'..


Instead of horses.
You there?


*Hides under desk shivering*

[himself]

(So I'm being evil..
I'm resurrecting this thread for the selfish reason of not seeing Himself around that much lately.. I love the guy..he's a straight shooter )
(Here goes)
[MENTION=22336]himself[/MENTION]
Hey buddy..
Havn't had a casual chat with you lately..

Was wondering how things are going..
If you've healed up ok and back on the 'pony'..


Instead of horses.
You there?


*Hides under desk shivering*

Things are going, thank you. I think I have healed up. I was scared at the time, but now I'm kind of disappointed that I didn't die or have to part of my bowel removed. From now on, I think I'll just do whatever I feel like doing rather than what I don't feel like doing. I don't feel like 'doing' sex. Looking at / thinking about boys has always sufficed - maybe sex (anal, at least) isn't my thing. Which is unfortunate since that's a deal breaker. Maybe I'll change. Or maybe I'll just have to 'accidentally' fall pregnant to trap someone into a relationship.

I am not keeping mentally stimulated these days since its the summer holidays. As a result, I'm going feral, so it's difficult to form coherent sentences, hence my lack of posts on here. I'd like to say I've been up to something, but nothing of note is going on with me at the moment. The tap water in my house was brown today. I think someone must have relieved himself in the well, and now it's coming out through the taps. That's probably every gay's wildest sexual fantasy but it's actually kind of inconvenient when you've got whites to wash.

[Anocxu]

Hey..
So you're keeping busy and sorting all kinds of stuff.,

I don't see you around that much so I was wondering if you were ok.. Or ,.stuck in stirrups getting an earful from a gynecologist...
or
maybe you're getting that menacing judgemental stare I get from my unhappy proctologist ... whom i've learned has become suicidal after I became his patient.

I wish I could quit him..

Anyhoo.. [MENTION=22336]himself[/MENTION]..
Thanks so much for replying..

I miss you sober insightful hard truth ..
And your drunken rants.

'A'