It ended for the silliest reason ever...

[EvenOlderButWiser]

One text message to him and you think because he doesn't immediately respond that its all over?

Well, its 4 days later, any updates for us?

[verysimple]

You can't really put too much thought in it verysimple...

This is something I have a lot of experience with. When you work in a busy nightclub...so many people "luv" you...and they probably do at least genuinely like you or at least something about you...but then you invariably piss someone off or say something the wrong way.....and you get a lot of attitude and bullshit...

...and most of the time you don't really have a clue what you "did"...so you just apologize and state your intentions not to ruffle anyone's feathers...and then walk away from it. Most people will let it go...but there are a handful that won't...and some of them are fucking batshit crazy and whatever it was you said was just a trigger to the bomb that was already in place..you didn't put it there....

So...don't beat yourself up anymore...and make sure you don't apologize more than a few times...

I can imagine as cute as you are that in the future you are gonna get shit from people for no actual reasons....except maybe they are jealous or their BF likes you and they blame you for it...or they didn't get from you what they wanted...so practicing quick apologies and moving on might be good practice

Thanks a lot for the advice... Actually things are "Fine" My friend with benefits is just a friend now... but to my I don't actually feel fine with them.. I mean last time we got together they were just like what you said to me.. Sloppy and bitchy, I thought that maybe everyone in the jordanian gay community is like that.. Their bullshit attitude felt they always criticize everything about you which doesn't make me feel good about myself... It certainly feels weird around them!