Dealing with premature ejaculation...

[Wardo94]

I've always had this problem where I just finish too fast! One method I've always used was the stop-and-go method, and it has really only helped when I'm pleasuring myself. But if I top, or if a guy is finishing me off with his hand, I could literally finish in under a minute, depending on how turned on I am.
It's embarressing when I mess around with someone and that happens. I've had guys who stopped talking to me because of that and it can be a little frustrating at times. The only other thing I can imagine helping to that, is practicing with someone. But I don't necessarily have someone to do that with, and I'm sure most, if not all would not want to deal with that, unless it's a significant other.
I also thought it could be, because I'm uncut. Since the foreskin does enable more nerves and what not. But I feel like removing my foreskin would be a drastic measure for something like this.

My main question really, is what other ways can I help to lasting longer, if there are any?

[Anocxu]

"Techniques in desensitization"

It's a process but can be very helpful...

Practice edging, pausing when you're close then continue.
You must set a time goal.

Pull your foreskin back..massage the head (Top) of your penis with your palm .


Wear loose gym shorts with no underwear.
Try it around the house at first.. then maybe go for a long walk...or at the gym?
The fabric will constantly rub against your penis it will lose a little sensitivity.

^^^^
I hope that helps.

[MikeW]

...My main question really, is what other ways can I help to lasting longer, if there are any?

My first question is, what happens after you cum? Do you just stop whatever you're doing with someone?

In my youth (oh, so very long ago) I liked it when guys I were with were so turned on they came rather quickly SO LONG AS that was't the "end" of it. It was *especially* nice if that was just the beginning and we went on, maybe over and over again. So... that's the question. How long before you're able to cum again?

If it takes you awhile (say, an hour or more) to get to that point of no return you might take this into consideration when hooking up or going out on a date... JERK OFF IN ADVANCE so the urgent need to get off isn't there so much.

But, actually, you're right. It takes practice and, I would say, frequency of sexual experience. I suspect the more sexual experiences you have (and the older you become), this will become less of an issue. In the mean time if you want to come out to California and let me help you with your problem, repeatedly, I'd be happy to help you out!

[Virge]

If it takes you awhile (say, an hour or more) to get to that point of no return you might take this into consideration when hooking up or going out on a date... JERK OFF IN ADVANCE so the urgent need to get off isn't there so much.

^^^^^ believe it or not I've heard a doctor say he tells patients that.

Also I read in a military forum where guys with the same problem said viagra has helped them last longer.... and get ready for seconds faster....

[Darius]

Wear loose gym shorts with no underwear.
Try it around the house at first.. then maybe go for a long walk...or at the gym?
The fabric will constantly rub against your penis it will lose a little sensitivity.

If I did that, I'd be tenting my shorts all day long. That might get the OP more attention then he wants....not to mention precum wetspots.

[Anocxu]

If I did that, I'd be tenting my shorts all day long. That might get the OP more attention then he wants....not to mention precum wetspots.

this is why I said to wear them around the house at first without underwear..

[Lexington]

I for one have never equated "orgasm" with "end of sexual encounter". I mean, yeah, it certainly can be, but it doesn't have to be. I've gotten a guy off right away....then simply made out with him until he started getting hard again, then went on like it was no big deal. Because honestly, it isn't.

Lex

[WhatsInAName]

You're an American and you have your foreskin you lucky son of a gun... For fucks sake don't get cut because you have PE. Cut men suffer PE too you know.

You need to learn the feelings that warn you you are about to come, you need the muscle strength to hold it back and you need to be able to communicate to your lover to stop or slow the hell down.

1. start doing kegel excercises - after a couple of weeks you should be able to stop your pee mid flow at will. This is the same muscle which you can use to hold back orgasm
2. start practicing edging
3. get a fleshlight.

You need to practice and desensitise through use of your equipment, all of which has naturally evolved to make you cum as fast as possible.

Learn your body, make it better and then own it.

In the meantime the idea of getting a quick O out of the way to delay the next is not a bad idea.

[DawnArmy]

this is why I said to wear them around the house at first without underwear..

It's ok. Just wear another loose boxer, not boxer brief, under the gym shorts. That loose boxer is pretty much the same as gym shorts.

[Rareboy]

I guess the question is whether you can cum again in a reasonable time after? I had on trick who came about a minute after we started....and then 6 times after that over an 8 hour marathon fuck.

good times...