Comfortable positions (for the bottom)

[Thatdude118118]

I'm still a virgin and was wondering about positions. I just want some suggestions for positions I should start with, and which ones are the best once you're used to it.

[Virge]

Face to face positions are best for us but then we mix it up and have done everything we can imagine. I imagine any position face to face would be a go one to start with.

And doing it in a spooning position is real nice too.

[altonchuck]

I am an old queen, who loves to bottom.
I am in a monogamous relationship.
I think being the bottom, means you give up control.
You are submissive; you give into your top. Whatever that position might be.
You will fine your favorite, mine is being on my back; feet up.
Yours might be face down ; butt up.
Which ever; the more flexable you are the more enjoyment you are going to recieve.
Whatever, the position: you only have so much movement available to you.
I don't mean your strapped down, or tied up. ( Though that is fun )

[princealbertofb]

I'm still a virgin and was wondering about positions. I just want some suggestions for positions I should start with, and which ones are the best once you're used to it.

Maybe you could watch a few porn movies just to see the sorts of positions that are available and possible? Just remember, though, that many of those positions aren't quite what they seem in real life. They are set to get an angle, a point of view effect. Some of those positions would be no good to get anything other than a visual effect.

What you really need to do is to find which positions YOU (and your partner) are comfortable trying out and which ones do it for you. The positions YOU choose may be different from other people's just because of your specific build and your partner's or partners' build-s. How long and large his penis is will also influence the sort of bottoming you do. How far inside do you want to feel him? Are you getting bruised inside by a penis that's oversized for you? If you're wearing condoms, is that affecting his erection, or is it rubbing you the wrong way? (plenty of lube is generally the advice here).

At the beginning many people advise just to try the sitting on top position, which enables you to choose exactly how much of your partner's penis goes into you, and also it enables you to get off him as soon as you feel any discomfort. You can try this facing him, or facing away from him which is a bit like doggy-style except that you won't be on all fours. Depending on the curvature of his penis, he will reach different areas inside you, whether you're sitting facing him or not. Sitting facing him will enable him at least to watch your reaction and to give you better attention if he senses you are in pain or not enjoying it, or, on the contrary, enjoying it a lot.

One last thing to consider is how supple you are. Can you bend easily or are you quite stiff limbed? Depending on how much you can bend, there will be some angles that will be more 'productive' than others in terms of stimulation and sensations. That's why I would suggest that practice is what you mostly need to find out what works for YOU, and your partner. Some partners may not like certain positions because they find them awkward or degrading, or make them lose their erections. In any case, try to go with the flow. Then talk about it with your partner so next time he knows what will work and what doesn't, but also be bold enough to try new things if you're up to it.

[zorro]

On my back with a pillow under my lower back.

[lonley]

I have to ask something ,well that is if I may . I have tried to bottom and no matter what position I get in it hurts so bad .I mean tears rolling and doubled over in pain and almost throwing up . I am not trying to scare any new guys off . I do not understand what is wrong with me . Not to be to gross or graphic but I cant take a finger with out all that pain , and it is always pain in the same spot on the right side of my well you know the hole and less than a inch in . I am afraid something bad is wrong I am scared to go get checked out .

[princealbertofb]

I have to ask something ,well that is if I may . I have tried to bottom and no matter what position I get in it hurts so bad .I mean tears rolling and doubled over in pain and almost throwing up . I am not trying to scare any new guys off . I do not understand what is wrong with me . Not to be to gross or graphic but I cant take a finger with out all that pain , and it is always pain in the same spot on the right side of my well you know the hole and less than a inch in . I am afraid something bad is wrong I am scared to go get checked out .

Piles, maybe, or scarry tissue that has formed and makes it really uncomfortable, maybe a tumour or an ulcer, but I don't want to get you worried. What's the size of the penis you're trying to insert? Are we talking about dildos or real life penises? I'm guessing you have tried plenty of lube.

If it's piles or inner scars it might be a good idea to consult your doctor. You could be having trouble going to the bathroom. That kind of pain doesn't seem to be normal, so you should get it checked anyway. See a proctologist, that's what ass specialists are called. It is also possible that you have a great fear of penetration and that your brain is overreacting, but in doubt I would still consult a medical specialist

[lonley]

Thanks for the info ,I do have trouble going to the bathroom .I never thought about it being caused by the same problem .I think I will have my doctor take a look just to be safe . As to your questions yes I have used lots of lube not to be gross or nasty but lets just say that the amount of lube I have used is enough for 5 or 6 guys . (blushing now) omg I can not believe I told that any way I am not even able to use a finger with out lots of pain the one guy that got the closest was not that big he was only 5 inches long and about the same size around as a uncooked hot dog . I thought I was going to die I was all light headed and to the point of throwing up and he only got the head in . I first thought it was nerves but I really want this it feels wonderful to have the outside rubbed it gets me all worked up but still no go . Sorry got side tracked lol any way I have a doctor appointment at the end of this week so I will talk to my primary doctor and get a referral to the butt doctor :-) thanks again for the response I hope everyone has the best week !

[Anocxu]

Some of us have small orphoeus..
It's just a given..

You'll just have to find someone that is sensitive to your body...

I know guys that brag about their power bottom status..
In my mind.. I've already labeled them.,
"Potential Drug Mule"

[LJay]

...orifice?