08-17-2015, 07:47 PM
Okay...apparently large chunks of your first post weren't clear or even true. Add on to that that things seem to have done a miraculous 180 from your first post to your second. In your first post you mentioned your partner seems to want to be doing things "outside of your relationship" or without you. In your second post, he totally wants you involved in everything he does. Either you didn't explain that well enough or things have changed.
When you use words like "scared" "insecure" and saying he has "moved in the opposite direction" of what you want this all paints a picture of a relationship that is not doing well. I and others encouraged you to end the relationship based off of:
A) What you told us
B) How you described things
C) How you felt
You apparently weren't clear with your original post or you yourself misunderstood the situation. Maybe you were just confused yourself at the time you did your post. The way your first post was a giant and hard to read wall of text makes this possibility that much more believable.
Either way, none of this matters. It seems like you're getting what you wanted out of your relationship. Congratulations.
When you use words like "scared" "insecure" and saying he has "moved in the opposite direction" of what you want this all paints a picture of a relationship that is not doing well. I and others encouraged you to end the relationship based off of:
A) What you told us
B) How you described things
C) How you felt
You apparently weren't clear with your original post or you yourself misunderstood the situation. Maybe you were just confused yourself at the time you did your post. The way your first post was a giant and hard to read wall of text makes this possibility that much more believable.
Either way, none of this matters. It seems like you're getting what you wanted out of your relationship. Congratulations.