One-daters versus First-daters

[Anonymous]

Note: this post is not a cry for attention and is not the saliva of a drama llama. Just ... answer ... my ... question

Help me, NOW!

I made this post anonymously because I feel like a schoolgirl and am embarrassed.
I just had a date with the cutest guy! Oh my gosh, hot damn! He was like so wicked cute! Fuck! I like had the time of my life!
I'm like, worried though. I mean, I once had a date with a wicked hot guy before (like, wicked hot, I mean, Jesus F'ing Christ HOT), but, he never texted me back. I guess I can't blame him, because I never did either. A year already passed, I still have his number, but, yeah I ain't calling him back after a year, he's a gonner.
But this one, is like, different! We had so many common interests! Oh my gosh, I can't even describe it to you. But, I wicked like him.
But... it's already nighttime and he hasn't texted me back!
Okay, I know what you are all thinking - I must be some chowderhead nitwit who should probably just text him back myself if it's bothering me so much and I'm probably some clingy flaming queef who must be wicked annoying in real life.
Well, no, I'm only trying to just exemplify the situation I'm in. I don't want to come off too clingy, maybe he's thinking the same thing, I don't know!
What are the rules? When am I suppose to call/text/email him back if he doesn't? Wait one day? Two? Come on, this can't be rocket science.

[Anocxu]

Send.
Just to let you.know I had an awesome time with you.
Hope to see you soon.

[jimcrackcorn]

Anocxu,,, he was with ME!!!!! <I think>

And,,,,,,,, to the OP:

Pick up the phone and call him (don't text),,, tell him you had a great time and would he like to do it again sometime in the near future.

If you had a great time,,, he probably did too, so, don't delay,, call today. Or tomorrow if it's a little to late in the night to be calling.

Good luck,
Jimerooooo

[TwisttheLeaf]

Call or text tomorrow. Tell him you had a good time and would like to get to know him better. Ask him how he feels about going out again. Suggest coffee or something.

[Anocxu]

Anocxu,,, he was with ME!!!!! <I think>

And,,,,,,,, to the OP:

Pick up the phone and call him (don't text),,, tell him you had a great time and would he like to do it again sometime in the near future.

If you had a great time,,, he probably did too, so, don't delay,, call today. Or tomorrow if it's a little to late in the night to be calling.

Good luck,
Jimerooooo

Jimmy..
You're a happily married man...

Never thought I'd ever be ..

'The other woman'

[VirgoMasquerade]

Jimmy..
You're a happily married man...

Never thought I'd ever be ..

'The other woman'

Uh? Dont talk to my sugar daddy like that!



Anyway just pick your balls up man and tell him you would like to go out again sometime

[jimcrackcorn]

Jimmy..
You're a happily married man...

Never thought I'd ever be ..

'The other woman'

From one 10 cent whore to another; I may be married,,, but my imagination works overtime at being a slutty single saucy thang (Big Grin)...

[Anocxu]

From one 10 cent whore to another; I may be married,,, but my imagination works overtime at being a slutty single saucy thang (Big Grin)...

Lmao..
You are such A trip..
I won't derail...
I'll stop here...

[East]

OK...you want help now...eh?

I can help you.......

Tone down the wicked hot thing and focus on the connection you had..seriously....

I have known alot of those wicked hot guys...I worked in a gay nightclub for 20 years so I saw them every night....had sex with alot of them...and spent the last 30 years with one of them....dripping wicked hot....sex on a stick hot...

Get your vibe in check...and when you text him...focus on the connection....alot of wicked hot guys will avoid you if you focus on their appearance..

Alot of the truly wicked guys HATE IT when they are objectified...and the way you will win them over is when you SEE them..WHO they are...not what they look like.

Don't give the desperate vibe either..just calm down..center yourself..focus on the connection you had...think of him as a great guy you would like to get to know....

Then CALL HIM..forget about texting..tell him how much you enjoyed your conversation and let him know about some restaurant you love...or concert...or something interesting that is happening...and invite him to go with you...no strings attached.....be open to any suggestions he might have...let the connection flow...

If he declines....at least you know you kept it real and put yourself out there...so it is still a win/win no matter what happens. The worst thing IMO..never trying...

Good Luck! I hope you have success!