Have a crush on a straight friend.. getting weird mixed signals from him.

[Rod]

I had this same exact problem. My solution. I fixed him up with one of my single girlfriends. They are now dating and I have my answer and if he is bisexual. He just missed his chance. because he flipped the script so quickly when he met her he lost my interest. I recommend doing the same. Say you've got a single girl you want him to meet. Then watch his manly hormones go into action. XD

[Anocxu]

[QUOTE=Tyrion;581506. The whole thing is weird. I think he just thinks of me as a great friend but I can't help but want more. Oh well, it is what it is. I'm learning to live with it.[/QUOTE]

Look at it this way..

Lets say you are correct..
His sexuality is "uncertain".
Would you want to get into a relationship with someone that is at an "experimental" phase ?

Another angle:

You know that you are gay you know what you want .


Let's say he turns out to be gay or bi and he wants to persue a relationship with another male..
You do realize there is no guarantee he will choose you .. (it sounds harsh but it's true)

One reason you are having such a hard time with this ..
He has become the object of your affection..
You have stopped looking at the possibility of dating other guys because you two are spending so much time together.

One reason it's so weird to you is..
You keep viewing this scenario at the same angle.
*Your mind keeps entertaining the possibility that he might be gay..
*You are totally falling for him.
*You want to be with him.
^^^^^^
You seem to be stuck in this cycle and its messing with your reality.
(Omg I know it must be awkward )

So you have to pull out of this.. start going out once in a while 'Without' him time to meet other guys..

hopefully you'll get the right time to tell him you are gay..

Hopefully it will not change your friendship..

Hopefully it will bring you two closer..

(Hugs)

When was the last time you were in the company of a hot guy that wanted to jump your bones?