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[JeanC7755]

Sounds like a player to me. Go check dat hoes cell phone and see how many "Bae" contact he has. The castrate him.

Now for my serious advice. He probably came to the realization that he's gone in balls deep on you and realized he didnt actually mean every word he said. You could level out the playing field and offer him an oppurtunity to take it more slowly. but if that fish wont bit you'll have to cut him off before you ACTUALLY get hurt-

As in witnessing him with another man-

That isn't you.

I say cut your own feelings off. And i don't mean make yourself numb. I literally mean it. Is it him you really love. or the idea of him. when you can answer that honestly- you'll know what you have to do.

Thanks, I will think on this. I told him last night we could take it slow, I don't think he will bite.

[Anocxu]

I just got really romantic and caught up in it all and got emotionally attached.

I totally understand..
I've done the same.

What exactly are you feeling at this very moment?

[JeanC7755]

I totally understand..
I've done the same.

What exactly are you feeling at this very moment?

Well tbh, I really wanted it to work out because I thought it wouldve been so romantic. So I am kind of sad and demoralized about it all. Last night though I was pretty angry tbh, I didn't think it was right for him to just change on me like that.

[JeanC7755]

I totally understand..
I've done the same.

What exactly are you feeling at this very moment?

Well I really really wanted it to work, it would've been so romantic. But I am really sad about it all, especially since I have so many pictures and stuff he sent me, last night I was also mad, because of how he just switched up on me.

[Anocxu]

Well I really really wanted it to work, it would've been so romantic. But I am really sad about it all, especially since I have so many pictures and stuff he sent me, last night I was also mad, because of how he just switched up on me.

Ahh..
See this I understand ..
The anger that accompanies the disappointment.

Here is where you are lucky..
This happened early in the relationship.
Imagine being invested after 6 or 8 months only to have this happen .

Well ..speaking investments..
One of the biggest investments you will ever make is your heart.

I guess the next guy that comes along needs to work a little harder and a much longer before you decide to make that investment..

Things that seem way too good to be true are usually such..
If someone promises you the world.. your first thought should be..
"I'll believe it when I see it"

As sad as it may seem..
Honestly..
He probably saved you tons of trouble .

Your posts reveal you are extremely sentimental..
You love the feeling and the Idea of being in love .

You said it in your post..
"He was very much my type"..
Raise the standards starting today..?

*Your type should mean exactly what they say..

*Your type should be able to ride out a conflict without turning into the incredible hulk.

Like I said i've been there.

Cheer up and hugz...
:-P

[MikeW]

[MENTION=23082]JeanC7755[/MENTION]: The system sent me your reply but hasn't posted it here yet... possibly because you quoted me in full and I wrote a lot, LOL! But yeah. As for not having a lot of experience, not a problem. Besides, not all the threads are about serious stuff.

[Rod]

Thanks, I will think on this. I told him last night we could take it slow, I don't think he will bite.

IF he doesnt bite i think you should abandon ship and find someone you can trust that trusts you back.

[James]

This person may not be ready for a relationship or not mature enough for one, love Mike's posts and agree, a player, from what you said I don't think so, just not ready for anything but a good conversation maybe, just my thoughts, James

[wayward]

This has happened to me before and happened to people I know more times than I care to keep track of. Some people are immature, prone to turn 180s in behavior in manipulative outbursts. It is emotionally abusive, and I hope you see yourself as being worth enough not to put up with nonsense. If you want to explore the mind of an unstable person, by all means do so. I don't think you will like what you find. I hope you forgive the rant. I know putting your heart into something hurts when you are faced with harsh disappointment. I hope you learn something positive from the experience. Carry on and best of luck.

[JeanC7755]

Yea I broke up with him yesterday. That being said he said he loved me and all this other stuff and he wanted a break and all this. It's all really confusing to me.