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[Anocxu]

Yea I broke up with him yesterday. That being said he said he loved me and all this other stuff and he wanted a break and all this. It's all really confusing to me.

The truth is ..
Some guys have a hard time processing intense emotions..
Heightened emotions can make us do and say weird things. Including throwing around sentences like.."I love you".

I believe your now Ex had a hard time getting a hold of himself.
Now him being downright dismissive to you is not an option, especially this early in the relationship.

If he needed a break to process things.. he could have done so without hurting you.

Here is something you should know about men that will save you some heartache when dating.

~>Saying I love you <~

When someone tells you this.. keep an eye out..
It could easily mean..

* I love the way you make me feel.
* I love the Idea of 'you' and I together.
*I love what I've seen, or know about you.. so far.

I pointed this out to you for one reason..

To think you love a person without really knowing them usually leads to chaos ..
There has to be a prolonged representation of character to see the big picture.

So rest, heal, get back out there and slow it down when it comes to dating?

This is the only way you'll know a guys mens what he says.

[sam]

i think a strong relationship has to include fights .. if fights never happen then it's not that stong