I can't believe he's not gay

[honestlyimnot]

Okay, I get asked this so many times, are you gay? Some people even ask me twice. I guess my problem is that I look a little too feminine, I remember some girl said once I looked like princess laya gone wrong, so you know what I mean. I mean it's that bad I even got gay gents adding me to their friends on facebook, people I never even heard of before but yet they are guessing I'm gay based on my picture, I just don't know but I am fed up with people assuming it about me. What can I do to make myself appear less gay? I had this woman at work, she comes up says are you gay, I said no, she said it's just that you're very good looking, she said a bloke customer was asking about me? Oh brilliant... What is the matter with me? Why am I attracting blokes all the time? What do I have to do to stop this? I am not gay in the slightest, I am not unsure or confused at all, I like women and bloke sex is not appealing to me at all so there can be no mistake. What signs do you see in men who are most deffinetely hetrosexual?

[marshlander]

Oh poor you, but I hope you are a little flattered too? It's nice to be appreciated!

My partner and I play a game when we're out ... watch how people walk and ask yourself, is he? isn't he? Maybe if you tried walking like you'd just got off a horse ... and had dirty fingernails?

Good luck at finding what you want, though. :redface:

[Star Twister]

Upload your photo "Honestly" and we'll see if you look too feminine

Welcome to Gay Speak fella


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[honestlyimnot]

No I am gutted, I think maybe I am just too girly looking, I am concerned about it cause a lot of girls don't like that in a man. I used to like the way I look but god I feel like grrrrr like I wanna rearrange my face with a hammer.

[honestlyimnot]

i tell you what I don't wanna send it to the whole forum if you wanna take a look I can send you a few pics

[marshlander]

No I am gutted, I think maybe I am just too girly looking, I am concerned about it cause a lot of girls don't like that in a man. I used to like the way I look but god I feel like grrrrr like I wanna rearrange my face with a hammer.

Please don't, that sounds rather drastic. :eek: Seriously, practise the horse-walking thing

[honestlyimnot]

there a pic on my profile you can see my ridiculous face

[marshlander]

there a pic on my profile you can see my ridiculous face

Ok, very nice, but maybe slightly androgynous ... ? I don't mean that impolitely. Have you considered a beard?

[honestlyimnot]

I can't really grow good facial hair, I grew some sideburns and they are okay. What is angrogenous?

[marshlander]

I can't really grow good facial hair, I grew some sideburns and they are okay. What is angrogenous?

androgynous Definition
an·drogy·nous (an drä′jə nəs)
adjective

1. both male and female in one; hermaphroditic
   
2. Bot. bearing both staminate and pistillate flowers in the same inflorescence or cluster
   
3. 1. of or marked by a blend of male and female characteristics, roles, etc. an androgynous culture
      
   2. designating or of something that is not differentiated as to sex androgynous clothing

Etymology: L androgynus < Gr androgynos: see andro- & -gynous

Sorry, it would have helped if I had spelled it correctly! Obviously not all those meanings apply ... I'd go for 3.1

Sideburns ... sounds good