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01-20-2009, 07:44 PM

gosh. okay I will try a beard... and the john wayne walk too.

01-20-2009, 08:07 PM

Star Twister Wrote:Upload your photo "Honestly" and we'll see if you look too feminine

Welcome to Gay Speak fella

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But looking too feminine has nothing to do with the rest of the psychological makeup... How can someone's features make one gay or straight. It doesn't make sense.
Honestly, HONEST, I don't think you look gay at all... rather a nice masculine face, but well, maybe it's got something to do with your demeanour?

01-20-2009, 08:08 PM

marshlander Wrote:Ok, very nice, but maybe slightly androgynous ... ?

Do you think so Marshy ??

I must say you do look younger than 24 and very handsome with it, I don't think you look girlie though

Do you dress girlie, do you think ?

For the record I have straight mates that have be likened to being gay, they don't seem to mind at all

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01-20-2009, 08:13 PM

honestlyimnot Wrote:I can't really grow good facial hair, I grew some sideburns and they are okay. What is angrogenous?

Androgynous: showing characteristics of both female and male of the species... Think of David Bowie in his younger years... That's the kind of look. Where it is difficult to tell male from female sometimes.
Well, you know what? I think people will just have to take your word that you are definitely NOT GAY and that's that. If they can't accept it, tough luck for them.

01-20-2009, 08:22 PM

I guess I do dress a little girly startwister, skinny jeans etc, but I just follow the latest trends and at the moment I suppose it's a little girly is it not. I think a lot of girls have an aversion to me because of the way I look and that sucks a bit, some like me a lot, most don't I think. and of course with the constant comments and questions like I mentioned before you can begin to doubt yourself and become unhappy with yourself.

01-20-2009, 08:26 PM

honestlyimnot Wrote:I guess I do dress a little girly startwister, skinny jeans etc, but I just follow the latest trends and at the moment I suppose it's a little girly is it not. I think a lot of girls have an aversion to me because of the way I look and that sucks a bit, some like me a lot, most don't I think. and of course with the constant comments and questions like I mentioned before you can begin to doubt yourself and become unhappy with yourself.

On the other hand, there's absolutely NO reason for dressing any other way than the way you like to dress... Have you tried a suit and tie, something that looks like that Man in the City look? I bet it'll give you oodles of masculine charm.

01-20-2009, 08:33 PM

quite true I know. yeah maybe that would be a good look I might try that.

fredv3b · 01-20-2009, 08:43 PM

princealbertofb Wrote:On the other hand, there's absolutely NO reason for dressing any other way than the way you like to dress...

Except perhaps work, needing to get past the bouncers, the weather, etc. Wink

01-20-2009, 08:46 PM

princealbertofb Wrote:On the other hand, there's absolutely NO reason for dressing any other way than the way you like to dress... Have you tried a suit and tie, something that looks like that Man in the City look? I bet it'll give you oodles of masculine charm.

Indeed

01-20-2009, 08:47 PM

fredv3b Wrote:Except perhaps work, needing to get past the bouncers, the weather, etc.

You are right, Fred, I was forgetting dress code... What I really meant was there was no reason to dress in any particular way just to please the crowd and look LESS GAY... it's annoying that people just assume, as they assume that everyone is straight, generally.