Feeling pretty hopeless :/

[Insertnamehere]

. Do you think it's realistic as a gay man to expect to ever be in a serious relationship or to date normal people?

Yes

but, as you have discovered, you have to navigate yourself through a whole lot of bullshit first.

It's way too early for you to be feeling hopeless.

Make a profile of the kind of guys you've been with. remember that profile. Learns to recognize the behavioral patterns that they show. Avoid it in the future.

Finding a meaningful relationship will never be risk free, but instead of being crushed by these results, use them, learn from them, and go on with your search for the guy that will make the effort worth it.

P.S: Happy birthday