Being picked up on the internet

[Anonymous]

I am developing a bit of a bad habit, I allow guys to pick me up on the internet. I have never approached anyone they have always approached me.

What happens is I get bored and find myself visiting a porn site. I get horny and then go onto a gay chat site. A guy messages me and the next thing I know we have agreed a meeting. This has now happened well into double figures and every meeting so far bar one has ended in sex. Every meeting has been at a venue of the other guys choosing.These often turn out as one night stands but occasionally lead to future meetings.

It happened again on Friday a guy messaged me we got chating and before I knew it we had agreed to meet and this time I even promised him anal sex with him on top, we meet tomorrow.

I know there are dangers in this and I know it is frowned upon by some but I do find it exciting.


That is my confession.

[sweetlad86]

I would'nt do it if it was me, I've had a few friends who meet the wrong sort of people and ended up getting beaten up by a group of fascists..

And I always think its really lazy....

[yar]

Don't

[spotysocks]

You lill tart! As i say to a friend of mine who does the same , at least you are not fussy! (And then he replies 'that's your envy') lol

On a serious note it is quite a common thing since the internet became what it is today. Before was a bar a pub ect now is also the internet. You are not the only one you never were and never will be... As long as you enjoy yourself and take in consideration what risks are involved keep having fun and stop when it is not fun any more to find what you want.

Since you see it as a bad habit though seems to bother you and looks like you have got carried away from a new game? Oh easy to happen. Personally I see two main reasons for occasional sex meets a. biology- needs... some people have higher sex drive to satisfy b. psychology- a mix of curiosity and insecurity, the need to reassure ourselves we are attractive and alive also a good way of distraction and stress relief... For some is also money and boy arent they the smartest! i dont get the saying dont mix pleasure with business lol Never mind that ..its my wry sense of humor.
So basically what i am saying is make sure you enjoy whatever you do and dont drag yourself in the unpleasant situation of getting a bad habbit. To do so just stop and think with your upper head what you want if what you have is not that. Makes sense?

[marshlander]

... That is my confession.

Say three Hail George Michaels.

[spotysocks]

Say three Hail George Michaels.

Hallelujah George Michaels! he is Greek!!!!

[zeon]

Hi There,
I personally think if you are willing to take a risk thats fine.. I myself dont mind placing myself in the boat of looking for sex online.. Except when i did it iwas single and never accomodated unless it was in the car lol... As long as u keep safe sex in mind you should be ok because without a condom your not only having sex with him... Your also shagging all his ex partners and shags which could be anything upto the whole town if his a slag

regards

zeon

[Anonymous]

Well back from the date and he was not the same as his picture. His bedroom was also not the cleanest and he had a cat in the room! Don't think we will be meeting again. However I have just accepted another offer. I think spotysocks is correct calling me a tart.

[Serfdom]

You need a boyfriend who can take you away from this need to pick up guys from the net. Its a dangerous, surely!

[fjp999]

I think spotysocks is correct calling me a tart.

maybe if you start charging you can go from simple tart to the oldest profession in the world