What Turns You On?

[SilentFilm1988]

So I know everybody has different tastes and preferences and I think life would be boring if everyone was alike. This post is just for my curious mind, thinking is it just me that REALLY enjoys kissing? So I've gone to nightclubs and I've had guys "grind" on me and honestly, it does nothing for me. However, other times I've had some guys come up to me and kiss me. When this has happened I get hard very quickly. So I'm curious is anybody else like me that kissing more than other things turns you on? Or the opposite other things turn you on more than kissing? Just curious of things that are turn ons for other people.

[Insertnamehere]

Well, I can get boners from hugs soooo...

Physical contact I guess, of any kind that can be classified as affectionate but can quickly get heated....

hard to explain

[meridannight]

everything turns me on. pretty much. seeing bare male flesh, being in the presence of a guy i'm attracted to, grinding, physical touch and contact, hugging, kissing...male hands.

my hormones are still wild.

but i agree on the kissing. kissing is exceptionally erotic and a huge turn-on, more so than some of the more explicit sexual acts. i can get myself off just thinking about kissing alone. and, curiously, in porn, kissing turns me on more than fucking, for example.

[MikeW]

What turns me on is "hotness". I've never been able to put words on it exactly. For sure, looks have something to do with it but it isn't a "type" exactly.... or maybe it is but not as we normally think of it. Some men just exude sexuality, or "hotness," to me. The look, age, ratio of "masculine" to "feminine" characteristics, race, hair color, hair or no hair, etc. --- all that can vary. Hot is hot. Hot is a man who enjoys sex, knows he does, isn't ashamed of it, and is fairly open and free about it. He's not out to manipulate or control or humiliate or dominate anyone. Guy just wants to have fun!

Gentle touching, kissing, yeah, the right smile and a wink, yeah that's a turn on. Turn off are unsolicited body part pix from anyone other than Mr. Truly Awesomely HOT.









Obviously I like muscles. But thats because, pictorially, they express the "attitude" or "energy" I find hot. IRL, I'm actually somewhat intimidated by big muscle physiques. I like to look at them, for sure, not so sure about anything much beyond that. Depends on the personality that comes along with them.

[VirgoMasquerade]

Seeing guys shirtless while wearing basketball shorts...

[LJay]

Seeing guys shortless while wearing basketballs shirts?

Yeah, that would do it.

Touch, intelligence, a free attitude, a guy who takes decent care of himself in grooming and dressing.

[Emiliano]

Mentally, Im turned on by intelligent, ambitious men. It turns me on to get into a conversation with a guy who can get lost in his passion. I also like a guy who has his head on straight, positive thinking, motivated men. Im not into bad boys or guys who need someone to "fix" them or take care of them.

Visually, Im turned on by athletic, toned bodies. I like well defined facial structures and strong features. Im drawn to golden, brown, and black skin, and dark eyes.

Physically, touching, kissing, and licking my neck, chest, and sides is a real turn on. And I like a guy who can switch up being aggressive or passive, who doesnt need it to be one way or another. I like give and take when it comes to all that, and it really turns me on to come across guys who are comfortable with that.

And in my mind, theres nothing sexier than a man who likes to cook, and is really good at it.

[TwisttheLeaf]

Hey [MENTION=20947]MikeW[/MENTION] ... that first picture? That's'a WOW. Just sayin', yeah?

Ok, so what turns me on. *Considers... and ends up sitting here thinking about it for a long ass time.*

Ahh yeah. Ok. so [MENTION=20938]Gideon[/MENTION] ... that's the easy answer.

There are triggers that can "get me there" in a fraction of a second, tho. Gid's fist curled on my throat. Or, the guy shoving me into a wall and crowding in. Those will do it every time. His stare when he gets all intense. A low rumbled "c'mere". His hand/s curled on my wrist/s. Teeth on my nape. The fit of hips against my ass.

I could keep going for a long ass time.

[SilentFilm1988]

everything turns me on. pretty much. seeing bare male flesh, being in the presence of a guy i'm attracted to, grinding, physical touch and contact, hugging, kissing...male hands.

my hormones are still wild.

but i agree on the kissing. kissing is exceptionally erotic and a huge turn-on, more so than some of the more explicit sexual acts. i can get myself off just thinking about kissing alone. and, curiously, in porn, kissing turns me on more than fucking, for example.

I'm so glad it's not just me about watching porn videos. Yeah I can get off and cum easily just watching a video of two hot guys kissing/making out even before it gets to sex. So I think based on responses I've read so far I may be one of the easiest ones to turn on that it doesn't take much.

[Cridders88]

Pretty much what Meridan said. It doesn't take much to get me going :biggrin:. Add to that tickling, feet, spanking, neck kisses, ear nibbling, a furry chest...