Bad Orgasm With Cock in my Ass

[trubl]

I have struggled with having a satisfactory orgasm while I'm being fucked by a partner. If I'm being fucked and have a cock in my when I ejaculate I get all the feelings of impeding orgasm, it is always way more intense with a cock in my ass right up until the moment that I start to spurt and then its like the pleasure is suddenly muted. I'm wondering if anyone has experience with this phenomenon and can help me learn to have a better orgasm. It isn't always the case tho, sometimes there is an explosive orgasm with ejaculation but I can't seem to put my finger on what different is happening when I fully enjoy the experience. Thanks

Trubl

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Bump.

So the experienced guys reply this.

[LJay]

Actually an interesting question, trubl. Maybe we have a physiologist or two on here game to reply. Maybe it just needs attention to someone with lots of experience. C'mon guys!

Something with pressure on prostate restricting contractions???

[Darius]

Hi Trubl. A couple questions first: how is your orgasm if he pulls out just before you cum? Does it matter what position you are in?

I actually don't like to cum when I have something in my butt. It seems too distracting to me, almost like one sensation is too intense for the other. I feel the same about ejaculating while doing 69. I love it for foreplay, but when it comes to cumming, I want to give him my undivided attention and have him do the same for me.

We are all different sexually, so there is no right or wrong way to do this.

[trubl]

In one instance with my current partner I was able to be on my back with legs over shoulder and allow myself to go completely limp while we had sex and that seemed to work well one time but then we haven't been able to replicate the event. Also been ok while being bent over in the kitchen on all floors er um I mean fours

[trubl]

If he pulls out generally its like letting the air out of the balloon in terms of arrousal. Generally have to lay down and stroke for some time or watch some porn or whatever... find my happy place anyhow hehe but cumming after is great. I know simultaneous orgasms are not a must. I'm a 34 year old man and I've been sexually active since 13 or 14 so I've got lots of myths about sex dispelled I just like being able to cum with less work and that seems to be quite viable with dick in me hehehe. As for positions, as I said in my other reply in the thread, on my back with legs limp over shoulders trying not to contract my anus and pelvic floor a worked atleast once I think but that's a lot of extra concentration and thought in the heat of a very uncoordinated moment of release hehe.

Hi Trubl. A couple questions first: how is your orgasm if he pulls out just before you cum? Does it matter what position you are in?

I actually don't like to cum when I have something in my butt. It seems too distracting to me, almost like one sensation is too intense for the other. I feel the same about ejaculating while doing 69. I love it for foreplay, but when it comes to cumming, I want to give him my undivided attention and have him do the same for me.

We are all different sexually, so there is no right or wrong way to do this.

[trubl]

Darius:

If he pulls out generally its like letting the air out of the balloon in terms of arrousal. Generally have to lay down and stroke for some time or watch some porn or whatever... find my happy place anyhow hehe but cumming after is great. I know simultaneous orgasms are not a must. I'm a 34 year old man and I've been sexually active since 13 or 14 so I've got lots of myths about sex dispelled I just like being able to cum with less work and that seems to be quite viable with dick in me hehehe. As for positions, as I said in my other reply in the thread, on my back with legs limp over shoulders trying not to contract my anus and pelvic floor a worked atleast once I think but that's a lot of extra concentration and thought in the heat of a very uncoordinated moment of release hehe.

Hi Trubl. A couple questions first: how is your orgasm if he pulls out just before you cum? Does it matter what position you are in?

I actually don't like to cum when I have something in my butt. It seems too distracting to me, almost like one sensation is too intense for the other. I feel the same about ejaculating while doing 69. I love it for foreplay, but when it comes to cumming, I want to give him my undivided attention and have him do the same for me.

We are all different sexually, so there is no right or wrong way to do this.

[Cuddly]

I have experienced the same.
It never really bothered me. I'd rather have lenghty hot sex with a boring orgasm than boring sex with an amazing orgasm.

Maybe it's because you're distracted and not fully letting yourself go?

[trubl]

If he pulls out generally its like letting the air out of the balloon in terms of arrousal. Generally have to lay down and stroke for some time or watch some porn or whatever... find my happy place anyhow hehe but cumming after is great. I know simultaneous orgasms are not a must. I'm a 34 year old man and I've been sexually active since 13 or 14 so I've got lots of myths about sex dispelled I just like being able to cum with less work and that seems to be quite viable with dick in me hehehe. As for positions, as I said in my other reply in the thread, on my back with legs limp over shoulders trying not to contract my anus and pelvic floor a worked atleast once I think but that's a lot of extra concentration and thought in the heat of a very uncoordinated moment of release hehe.

[Pcolakuntryboy]

Have you tried getting on top and riding him? It doesn't take me long to cum in that position, especially if I arch backwards.