Aries
04-13-2016, 11:44 AM
Hey guys, it has been a while, but for many reasons I can't wrap my head around. I need your advice as my life is now in danger.
As some of you know, I have been in a relationship for 4 months now, which I don't know if it will last longer. My boyfriend is 20 years old. He left his studies after high school and is currently looking for a job. He is a cute, energetic, talented and very passionate guy.
He lives with his homophobic father and somehow supportive mother. His dad is aggressive and a vile man. 5 weeks ago, my bf called me saying he couldn't take it anymore, and he had to get out of his house quickly. His father, for the sake of a long vacation trip, had stolen a big amount of money from him which he had put apart. My bf packed up his stuff, jumped over his balcony (intact) and moved in with me. Although it was a bit fast, we had no other option to keep our lives organized. Time was not on our side.
We stayed in my apartment for 3 weeks. My landlord, who lived on the same floor, could hear us moving in and out the badly isolated apartment. In the contract I signed for rent (the rent itself is rather expensive), I realized not soon enough I had no right to let anybody else live in the apartment, and the landlord gave me two options: either my bf leaves, or we both do. Refusing to throw my lover on the cold streets and lacking time, I chose the second option. We quickly found and bought a wide caravan and moved our stuff into it (I am its official owner).
We stayed in that caravan for 9 days, things were going slowly better as to searching for a job for each of us, one for me that shouldn't interrupt my studies which are going pretty good. However, we somehow lacked sturdy financial support, but that could be solved with the help of some organisms.
But a shockwave blasted us last Sunday. My bf's sister and his 19yo nephew (her son) came to visit us, since his brother-in-law is the one who helped us move the caravan to a relatively isolated green space not far from my bf's parents' house. I started feeling something not clean. His sister then left with her husband while his nephew, who many times tried to separate us, stayed with us. 15 minutes after that, and after he told me - as usual - that my bf is using me all the time, my bf's 22yo niece (daughter of his other vile sister) came to alert us that his father knows where we are and that he wants me completely out of the equation or there would be consequences. She then told us that my bf's mother has revealed us and was in morbid panic, getting sick with her feeble nerves. She then tried to convince my bf to return home, but he refused saying he can't leave me alone. She left after 10 minutes of stress, when her vile mother came to take her and insulted me while I was taking a breath outside.
5 minutes after she left, my bf's father came straight at us. He knocked the door and shouted his name. I hid in the room with a knife in my hand. Gently, smoothly, his father criticized his new lifestyle as he spent almost all of his childhood and teen years (and until recently) in a luxury lifestyle. He also told him he's not safe living in a caravan because of the outside danger and said he can return home whenever he wants. I sensed the nerves in his father's voice and his unusual aggressiveness. His nephew convinced him to return to his parents' house, and considering his lack of choices, my bf packed up his stuff and went back home. I couldn't believe what happened.
A while after my bf left without a word, fearing his father would force himself inside and strangulate me like he threatened to, he came back to me while I was picking up a phone call. He kissed me twice, with tears in his arms, his mother getting even more sick. I was crushed deep inside, but my face remained cold, colourless.
1 hour after the separation, my bf's nephew had a quick dinner with me, I was about to vomit and I started coughing. My nervous troubles were invading me again. But my bf's sister quickly called me and told me to pack up my stuff after he son told her what happened. He also suggested I spend the night with him, in his own caravan in his parents' property, a villa with a vast garden. I took some stuff and went in their car. On the way, my bf's sister, her husband and her son told me that all along my bf has been using me, that he is selfish with everyone and has no heart. The brother-in-law suggested he will take my caravan into his ground and I can live next to them, without paying rent, and in return I cut absolutely any kind of contact with my bf.
However, I contacted and even saw my bf on Monday. He swore he was forced out and I can believe him seeing what happened overall. I know and have proof that he was about to give me back the money I lent him and even more had his father not stolen the big sum for his own profit. He begged me to find a solution for both of us to escape this infected family of his and move in together again. I told him I need some time (1 or 2 months) to recover financially and for him to find a job so we can move in together. He was hiding his face that day, and when I saw fresh scars on his arms, my PTSD flashed again and I couldn't help but try and do something about it, at least to get myself out of his sister's prison. Fearing his reactions that could go insane and damage us even more, he doesn't even know I live with his nephew.
So now I am caught between two lies. My bf's nephew is following me step by step, watching every move I make like his father asked him. Last night, he told me his father is going to beat me up, shoot me or throw me out on the street as soon as he knows I am still in contact with my bf. He also threatened he would do it himself.
All I know else is that my boyfriend loves me and I can see it in his eyes, his smile, his tears, his hugs and kisses. I may live without him, even if it is the hardest thing I would have to overcome, but I can't lose him this way, not without explanation. But for now, I need help more than he does.
Please help me... I can't stay another single day in that toxic property. I have to save my own life but I don't have many options for the moment. I even prefer living on the streets than putting my soul in danger because I fell in love with a guy who never hurt me.
Thanks... ...
As some of you know, I have been in a relationship for 4 months now, which I don't know if it will last longer. My boyfriend is 20 years old. He left his studies after high school and is currently looking for a job. He is a cute, energetic, talented and very passionate guy.
He lives with his homophobic father and somehow supportive mother. His dad is aggressive and a vile man. 5 weeks ago, my bf called me saying he couldn't take it anymore, and he had to get out of his house quickly. His father, for the sake of a long vacation trip, had stolen a big amount of money from him which he had put apart. My bf packed up his stuff, jumped over his balcony (intact) and moved in with me. Although it was a bit fast, we had no other option to keep our lives organized. Time was not on our side.
We stayed in my apartment for 3 weeks. My landlord, who lived on the same floor, could hear us moving in and out the badly isolated apartment. In the contract I signed for rent (the rent itself is rather expensive), I realized not soon enough I had no right to let anybody else live in the apartment, and the landlord gave me two options: either my bf leaves, or we both do. Refusing to throw my lover on the cold streets and lacking time, I chose the second option. We quickly found and bought a wide caravan and moved our stuff into it (I am its official owner).
We stayed in that caravan for 9 days, things were going slowly better as to searching for a job for each of us, one for me that shouldn't interrupt my studies which are going pretty good. However, we somehow lacked sturdy financial support, but that could be solved with the help of some organisms.
But a shockwave blasted us last Sunday. My bf's sister and his 19yo nephew (her son) came to visit us, since his brother-in-law is the one who helped us move the caravan to a relatively isolated green space not far from my bf's parents' house. I started feeling something not clean. His sister then left with her husband while his nephew, who many times tried to separate us, stayed with us. 15 minutes after that, and after he told me - as usual - that my bf is using me all the time, my bf's 22yo niece (daughter of his other vile sister) came to alert us that his father knows where we are and that he wants me completely out of the equation or there would be consequences. She then told us that my bf's mother has revealed us and was in morbid panic, getting sick with her feeble nerves. She then tried to convince my bf to return home, but he refused saying he can't leave me alone. She left after 10 minutes of stress, when her vile mother came to take her and insulted me while I was taking a breath outside.
5 minutes after she left, my bf's father came straight at us. He knocked the door and shouted his name. I hid in the room with a knife in my hand. Gently, smoothly, his father criticized his new lifestyle as he spent almost all of his childhood and teen years (and until recently) in a luxury lifestyle. He also told him he's not safe living in a caravan because of the outside danger and said he can return home whenever he wants. I sensed the nerves in his father's voice and his unusual aggressiveness. His nephew convinced him to return to his parents' house, and considering his lack of choices, my bf packed up his stuff and went back home. I couldn't believe what happened.
A while after my bf left without a word, fearing his father would force himself inside and strangulate me like he threatened to, he came back to me while I was picking up a phone call. He kissed me twice, with tears in his arms, his mother getting even more sick. I was crushed deep inside, but my face remained cold, colourless.
1 hour after the separation, my bf's nephew had a quick dinner with me, I was about to vomit and I started coughing. My nervous troubles were invading me again. But my bf's sister quickly called me and told me to pack up my stuff after he son told her what happened. He also suggested I spend the night with him, in his own caravan in his parents' property, a villa with a vast garden. I took some stuff and went in their car. On the way, my bf's sister, her husband and her son told me that all along my bf has been using me, that he is selfish with everyone and has no heart. The brother-in-law suggested he will take my caravan into his ground and I can live next to them, without paying rent, and in return I cut absolutely any kind of contact with my bf.
However, I contacted and even saw my bf on Monday. He swore he was forced out and I can believe him seeing what happened overall. I know and have proof that he was about to give me back the money I lent him and even more had his father not stolen the big sum for his own profit. He begged me to find a solution for both of us to escape this infected family of his and move in together again. I told him I need some time (1 or 2 months) to recover financially and for him to find a job so we can move in together. He was hiding his face that day, and when I saw fresh scars on his arms, my PTSD flashed again and I couldn't help but try and do something about it, at least to get myself out of his sister's prison. Fearing his reactions that could go insane and damage us even more, he doesn't even know I live with his nephew.
So now I am caught between two lies. My bf's nephew is following me step by step, watching every move I make like his father asked him. Last night, he told me his father is going to beat me up, shoot me or throw me out on the street as soon as he knows I am still in contact with my bf. He also threatened he would do it himself.
All I know else is that my boyfriend loves me and I can see it in his eyes, his smile, his tears, his hugs and kisses. I may live without him, even if it is the hardest thing I would have to overcome, but I can't lose him this way, not without explanation. But for now, I need help more than he does.
Please help me... I can't stay another single day in that toxic property. I have to save my own life but I don't have many options for the moment. I even prefer living on the streets than putting my soul in danger because I fell in love with a guy who never hurt me.
Thanks... ...
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Virgo
. I echo Feathers' sentiment; I guess you have felt you haven't been able to ask anyone you know for help as you have had to move into the caravan in the first place. But is there literally no-one you can ask for help? The situation sounds pretty desperate 
Sagittarius
Libra
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