Attraction to one person?

[Anocxu]

. He is not that handsome, he does not have a sexy beach body,

That's such a shallow comment...

I do not have a sexy beach body either.. I am no Zach Efron..

How about you?
Are you smokin hot?
Are you Buff?

Post a pic...

[JosefOlive15]

That's such a shallow comment...

I do not have a sexy beach body either.. I am no Zach Efron..

How about you?
Are you smokin hot?
Are you Buff?

Post a pic...

What I meant with that is that he's not so hot, but I am very attracted to him and him only.

[matty7]

with him having a girlfriend then im not surprised he's torn right now - he must not know what the hell he feels at this moment in time - and I guess been gay is frowned upon by both your family's must make matter emotional 10 time worse - ive no idea if you will meet another guy who lights the fire in your heart like this guy did - but never say never.. Its a shame you mentioned that he's not that handsome but I do get it -the media portrays the beach body with the six pack as the desirable specimen for all of us apparently - and we judge other by this standard at this moment in time..it wasn't always so though - thank god we all find all different body types attractive otherwise the only people having sex would be super models lol

[Borg69]

I think you're in love.

[Anocxu]

What I meant with that is that he's not so hot, but I am very attracted to him and him only.

Contradictory post...

Shouldn't that exclusive attraction make him extremely attractive?

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

What you are doing is comparing his looks to stereotypical standards?.. "Hot" ?

You didn't post a pic of yourself...
Some of us might consider you to be ugly...

Do disrespect meant..

[VINA]

A year ago, when I was still in college, I lost my virginity to a guy. He is dating a girl and we both come from families where what we did is totally unacceptable. We saw each other twice at the end of the spring semester of 2015 and for the summer we both went back home and did not see each other for about 4 months but remained in touch.

On the new school year (Fall 2015), we remained friendly to each other and casually hung out. But then in October we couldn't resist temptation and made out. We kept seeing each other for 2 weeks, but then we did not do anything until last week. He decided to stick to his family values and his girlfriend and decided not to have contact with me in order to avoid having sex. He says that he cannot be two persons.

He was a good friend to me and that bothers me more than not having a sex partner. After the last time we had sex, I did not feel it was that good, it was ok. But ever since then I do not feel attracted to anyone but him. I am very confused. He is not that handsome, he does not have a sexy beach body, but I can only think of him.

What is this feeling? Am I ever gonna feel sexually attracted to someone else? I can say: "hey that guy/girl is handsome/pretty" but I wouldn't imagine myself kissing them or having sex with them.

Want a recovery recipie...
Message me it works...
Though I will admit, I've never quite been as love sick as you..
I won't go all the way till I'm married...SO the feelings do't sit the same.

[JosefOlive15]

Some of you guys think I am in love. I have been in love in the past and I don't think this is case. The difference is that I could imagine a life with the persons I was in love with. With this guy, I only imagine romantic and sexual encounters.

I have tried to get distracted and that actually has helped a little bit.

[Jesunrocks]

The first one always does that magic/havoc or even, in my case, the first few... The world is not ended man, plenty of fish and stuff, sounds cliche but true. No matter in what way you're gonna deal with this, get better!

[MikeMercury]

That's such a shallow comment...

I do not have a sexy beach body either.. I am no Zach Efron..

How about you?
Are you smokin hot?
Are you Buff?

Post a pic...

I don't see the need for this. The OP stated a fact. There was nothing shallow about it! He made it clear that we was attracted to the guy. What's your problem?

[Anocxu]

I don't see the need for this. The OP stated a fact. There was nothing shallow about it! He made it clear that we was attracted to the guy. What's your problem?

My problem NOW.. is you missed the point..

Read the post again and think...

Sent from my LGMS323 using Tapatalk