69 are not position for men

[Anonymous]

I'm so bloody tired of hearing idiots online who ask to do a 69 with you..

Does anybody else agree that 69 is not a position for two men and is not enjoyable

does anybody else feel they just want to enjoy the sensation and find it more enjoyable when they can concentrate whats happening to them

why can't nobody give pleasure without having to have it back at exactly the same time in exactly the same manor, it becomes less enjoyable all round

it's all porn obsessed idiots who also cannot take their time, porn makes them think everything is hard and fast OR not exciting.. and a race to the finish end

I'm really truly sick of it, the sexual immaturity that is everywhere. That you almost have to expect

there is so much stuff online so guys could learn, read, think but NO just watch your SHITTY unreal porn and try to imitate it.

[Bhp91126]

I do not agree with you on almost every point. I love doing it. I'm wired that I need to participate during sex, only sitting there while the other tries to pleasure me is boring.

However, when 69ing becomes a competition on who can get the other off faster, then it loses its appeal to me.

[Yeshua]

I'm so bloody tired of hearing idiots online who ask to do a 69 with you..

Does anybody else agree that 69 is not a position for two men and is not enjoyable

does anybody else feel they just want to enjoy the sensation and find it more enjoyable when they can concentrate whats happening to them

why can't nobody give pleasure without having to have it back at exactly the same time in exactly the same manor, it becomes less enjoyable all round

it's all porn obsessed idiots who also cannot take their time, porn makes them think everything is hard and fast OR not exciting.. and a race to the finish end

I'm really truly sick of it, the sexual immaturity that is everywhere. That you almost have to expect

there is so much stuff online so guys could learn, read, think but NO just watch your SHITTY unreal porn and try to imitate it.

69 position and many other existed way before modern porn incorporated it in their clips buddy. One think to understand about porn is that you're viewing pretty much 1/3 of the whole thing so yes it always seems that they're rushing things into a 30 minutes timeframe when in fact performers can be 2 hours on set for that tiny little 30 minutes you're watching and getting off by. 69 is quite enjoyable when both parties are comfortable with it. Porn doesn't teach sex, it may give some good positions idea because they are not making them up, they're just borrowing them from centuries of recorded sex position - ever heard of the Kamasutra, Tantric sex etc. This is not invented by porn performers or porn directors. What truly porn does is to give ideas that you can try and perfect with your partner and perhaps comes up with your own version.

Porn is just the representation on videos of people's fantasies and that's about it. In my opinion you need to communicate what you like to your partner and vice and versa and if 69 isn't for you it doesn't mean that other do not enjoy it or that 69 isn't a position for men. Do you know which position isn't for men? Tribadism - why because tribadism is the scissor position exclusive to women who rub their vagina together, guys can do frotting which is pretty similar but tribadism will not work for them.

Since you are really aware that porn isn't real, why do you care so much about someone asking for 69, starting with this state of mind that the person is asking you for 69 just because they've seen it in a porn video and with the fact that you despise porn will definitely not make you comfortable. Since you're giving the option to read about sex, how about you deroute them with something that you find better, because indeed people are influence by their porn stars and if you were truly speaking to a pornstar you would find out that half of them do not like what they do during filming and they only do it for the sake of the clip they record and would not do it in real life.

[MENTION=20922]Bhp91126[/MENTION] eloquently said it:

when 69ing becomes a competition on who can get the other off faster, then it loses its appeal

I totally agree with that. My dad had a porn studio when I was younger and I have seen many things and understood that I will not have sex for money or turn it into a job because trust me I have seen guys - well known dude who had a hard time getting an erection or keeping it no matter if the other performer was steaming hot.

Porn isn't real and it shouldn't spare you from enjoying sex and only by properly communicating what you like to your partner will do and if someone comes with something you don't like propose something else that both of you can enjoy but don't blame porn for it because after all, you don't even truly know if the performer is really enjoying the position they are in, it's all an act.

[Anonymous]

I do not agree with you on almost every point. I love doing it. I'm wired that I need to participate during sex, only sitting there while the other tries to pleasure me is boring.

However, when 69ing becomes a competition on who can get the other off faster, then it loses its appeal to me.

thats really a surprise .

although for a minute I thought you said you DO agree with me on almost every point and it felt nice, thank you.

I didn't say non-participation, I just said not at the same time and foreplay, not sex.

its okay SOMETIMES but it's ALL the time

It's not just 69, it's masturbation and oral, a lot of them think it's a race

fastfastfastfastfast, all the time

not all the time, thats how I know it's so boring

[jimcrackcorn]

Well,, at least your having sex!!!

And leave my porn alone,,, it's all I got (big grin)...........

Sin-cerely,
Jimeroooo

[meridannight]

i don't agree with that either. although, i also agree that it's just as good to give a blowjob and take care of a guy while not having anything done to you at the time. but 69 is definitely a pleasure.

if you're having such issues with it, maybe you're not communicating with your partner effectively enough? most guys i've been with welcome input on how you want things done. and i also don't agree that sexual immaturity is so pervasive. i do agree that some guys can be like that, but it's hardly as wide-spread as your post makes it sound.

[TigerLover]

oh pish

It's not pornstars perpetuating the 69. it's basic addition.

getting head feels good, giving head feels good. Therefore giving and recieving at the same time must feel really good. I'm sure ancient Athenians 69'd

[Feathers]

oh pish

It's not pornstars perpetuating the 69. it's basic addition.

getting head feels good, giving head feels good. Therefore giving and recieving at the same time must feel really good. I'm sure ancient Athenians 69'd

I doubt it was just the Athenian's. The Romans were a kinky lot. :o

[TigerLover]

I doubt it was just the Athenian's. The Romans were a kinky lot. :o

Yeah I'll bet thats why the romans lounged around on cushions all the time, they were always ready for a good old 69.

[Feathers]

Yeah I'll bet thats why the romans lounged around on cushions all the time, they were always ready for a good old 69.

Don't forget the crude art and symbols representing the brothels in Pompeii!

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