69 are not position for men

[ballparkdogg]

I love 69. It is so incredible to be pleasing each other at the same time

[allin4oral]

I do not agree with you on almost every point. I love doing it. I'm wired that I need to participate during sex, only sitting there while the other tries to pleasure me is boring.

However, when 69ing becomes a competition on who can get the other off faster, then it loses its appeal to me.

I agree with you, 69 is fantastic because as you say, you are participating in sex as opposed to just lying there. Although, I disagree with you in that I would never be bored sitting back and getting a BJ. 

Bottom, line, both ways are valid and in my opinion, both ways are a wonderful sexual experience (assuming the 2 partners have communicated their expectations) for both parties. It really just comes down to meeting the persons expectations. IF they want it fast, ok, try and give it fast, if they want to sit back and enjoy, ok too. I know that for me, I do not care what the specifics are nearly as much as just getting my mouth filled.

Oh, I forgot to note, the title says 69 is not for men. What does the gender have to do with the sex act? 69, in my opinion, is for anyone, if that is what they want.