Desensitized?

[Anonymous]

So, my boyfriend and I had a little fun today with each other.

Let's just say the fun, while we tried to prolong it as much as possible, wasn't coming. Like, literally.

We both struggled to maintain erections, the water-based lube we tried while double-jacking kept drying up on us, becoming a sticky mess, we couldn't get comfortable that much, and I started to become so tingly, perhaps from hyperventilation and the intensity.

What would be a good solution to solving the problem(s) here? For the both of us to swear off porn? (We both admittedly do indulge in it from time to time.)

Also, what are good foods, methods, for building sexual libido? We both feel that was a bit of a problem.

Lastly, are there better lubes out there that don't dry out too quickly? (And that will wash off with soap and water in the shower - I hear silicone lubes essential scotch-guard everything it comes in contact with...)

[LJay]

Keep a spray bottle of clean water close to the bed or wherever you are going at it. It helps to reliquify the lube.

As for not coming. It happens. Go slow, enjoy the ride and relax.

Foods? Cukes and Carrots are good. Just lube either one and have a sit. Usually works.

Good luck guys. Creative writing 102a is next.

[InbetweenDreams]

Could also try a different type of lube too, like a silicone lube...doesn't dry up but, just have to keep in mind not to use it with condoms or silicone toys as it will break them down in ruin them.

Me, yeah I don't like water based lubes for that reason, but [MENTION=20933]LJay[/MENTION] 's idea sounds like a simple solution to that problem. I find that often enough focusing on trying to come or any kind of frustration will just make it more difficult to get there too.

[Darius]

Wet platinum is good and won't dry out, neither will gun oil. Coconut oil is good because if you decide to switch from handjobs to blowjobs, you don't have to worry about washing it off first.

My favorite jack off lube is Stroke 29, it comes as a cream, but liquifies easily.

Are you remembering to play with each others balls and taint while you are messing around. Even finger the butthole. Why can't you watch porn while you are mutually jacking each other?