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artyboy · 10-17-2016, 04:45 PM

Overly gay I guess lol.

I'm not into that type myself, though ended up in two relationships with that type lol.

InbetweenDreams · 10-17-2016, 04:50 PM

Cheet0V90 Wrote:Also can you please define "camp" for me..? No idea what u mean by that

Feminine basically...Not masculine...

Well I would seem to think more liberal people would be more accepting. I think mostly closed minded people would have a problem. If you wouldn't think your friends would accept you as gay they probably wouldn't accept you as bisexual either or anything outside of the typical straight male.

When it comes to sexuality in general and may have read this from my and others on here I see it more of a spectrum than anything like a black and white thing. Also depends on what you want out of a relationship with someone. If you're looking to settle down with someone just have to ask yourself would you rather settle down with a man or woman...

This thread does make me think more on what I am wanting. I have thought about it over and over and at times I feel like I would like to date women, but then there's that whole gap about my sexuality. I also think I could be equally happy with a guy too and I have more experience, what little I do have, dating guys and I do want kids but I think I would be plenty happy to adopt kids as well. My problem is simply that I find more guys than girls sexually attractive, but my sexual experiences fall mostly with guys.

As far as being understood, people don't really understand, people can accept your sexuality and be done with it. People who are real friends won't really care, half may suspect that you're gay or bisexual already. My sister suspected me long before anyone else did and most people have a hard time figuring out that I am gay.

10-17-2016, 04:59 PM

It's weird, women seem to have a gay dark of sorts that men just don't have...

Not to mention that my only sexual exp so far was w a random dude in college, ever since wanted to expand that, but when I have the chance, life or my mind get in the way...

10-17-2016, 05:01 PM

Okay thanks for clarifying that!

artyboy · 10-17-2016, 05:06 PM

We try our best lol.

This whole thing is a bit of a hard thing to get your head around at times lol..

InbetweenDreams · 10-17-2016, 05:36 PM

Cheet0V90 Wrote:It's weird, women seem to have a gay dark of sorts that men just don't have...

Not to mention that my only sexual exp so far was w a random dude in college, ever since wanted to expand that, but when I have the chance, life or my mind get in the way...

Well I definitely agree, even when you're seeking someone to play around with and experiment it is hard to fins someone to fill those shoes, most guys who want sex want only sex and want it from a porn star or have unrealistic expectations...which in your case...and my case leads to an awkward experience that I'd rather avoid. What I'm saying it would be nice to find someone who is ok with playing around but isn't a total whore, is understanding, etc... But I think that is lala land because I think those people are unlikely to find. Likewise we don't want to lead people on either...

My advice, get on a dating app or something along those lines....but make two accounts.

Gemini · 10-17-2016, 06:00 PM

OK, first of all, Camp is a caricature of the gay stereotype. Think of the most flamboyant gay guy you've ever seen and multiply his behavior. by 10. That's Camp.

I take your post to mean that you feel like you're bisexual, but if that were known to the people in your life, they'd probably consider you a nonconformist. If you're concerned about the reactions you'd get if you came out as bi, try casually mentioning that you met someone who's bi, something like that, and see what reactions you get. That will help you judge how it might go for you.

10-19-2016, 01:27 AM

Yeah thanks for the clarification! What I mean by having a femme side, I like nail polish on occasion, without others knowing about it, as in socks on most of the day. Am considering adding color to my hands, but I need to get beer first before the upcoming debate on Wednesday here... Probably won't that is that I stick out in a crowd, even w/o nail color...

10-19-2016, 02:26 AM

*Finds the definition of nonconforming and then answers.*

Of course it's possible. Who you fuck is your business. Who you love is your business. What you enjoy is your business. So you do your thing. Stand firm about who you are. And let others deal with their issues with it (if there are any) on their own.

When someone says something negative, give them a level, serious look and say "I like it". Because you do, and they're in the wrong for being an asshat, and should know it.

It's part backbone. Part (deserved) entitlement. Part unyielding possession of your own life.

10-19-2016, 06:46 PM

Thank you Twist!