How would be your perfect date?

[InbetweenDreams]

I guess me still being single and having dates with guys where they either invite me over or vice versa, most ended with just that. So I feel that sex often ruins it or that's what they were after the entire time (along with a free meal and a good time).

One thing that popped in my mind this morning was kissing in the middle of a thunderstorm, getting poured on. I can't think of a better reason to get soaked out in the rain.
[MENTION=23908]Shawn[/MENTION] Yes, food is definitely something most will agree is awesome. I think it is universal. It is when your date says they don't like to eat, that's usually not a good thing.

One thing I have always wanted to do, despite my irrational but rational fear of heights was a hot air balloon ride... I mean they do pose a risk too, which does make me a bit uneasy about wanting to do that, but I think it would be an experience of a lifetime and to be able to share that with someone special would be a huge bonus. I can definitely say something like that I would only do with someone I think is spectacular, I wouldn't be doing this with some guy off a dating app...unless they were the real deal but the odds are unfavorable. I hate sounding like a Debbie Downer but it's damn near impossible to find someone who is wanting something besides a quick fuck and even when you do find someone who isn't I end up with someone who either has unrealistic expectations or I'm underwhelmed by them. Anyway, I'm going to stop this rant now lol.

[InbetweenDreams]

I thought more about this....while I think this would go a bit beyond a date but it would be something I would want to do with someone I am dating or partnered with. I also did a little bit of looking into this a while back and turns out you can rent time at an observatory. I've always enjoyed looking through telescopes but getting one that can see very distant things is expensive and start getting huge in size. But there is a place in California that allows you to rent the observatory and camp in a campground next to the observatory. I think the price is fair enough considering it is something of a once in a lifetime. I don't think this at all qualifies as a date but something special you can share with someone special.

[Sylph]

Hi guys!

Let's talk about your Ideal way of dating someone... I know this life is fast and also bussy to the point we have had many dates, some just too informal to seems as a date, more like a meeting... Speaking about myself, the last time I had a good dinner in a nice place with someone was really... well I don't remember, in fact most of my recent dates have been in fast food restaurants or mall food courts . But speaking about the opportunity to have something special, yes this could be with someone new, but I imagine this kind of dates like when you already have a partner.

My perfect main "dream" date would be like this:

In a White Sand beach in the Caribbean sea, with a table, simple, chairs together looking at the sea. at 6pm, having a dinner with light candles...


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Basically my life, everyday. I'd hate for this to be my "special date", only because I'm from an Island and so have been there and done all the "Island things" tourists seem to love lol.


And realistically speaking, I'm such a control freak in my everyday life, I'da rather not even have the idea of a perfect date in my head;

As I'd want the other guy to do it.

Just totally take control and surprise me.

I guess that's my idea of a "perfect date". One where I have no control.

[Insertnamehere]

You can change the word perfect for Idyllic, I wasn't talking literally. Yes, the longest the term you have with someone, the special you have to celebrate, if you think in having a relationship where you don't celebrate anything, because everyday is the same to you, you can have it also. just good luck

Ok, idillyc sounds more manageable.

I still don't know how to answer this properly, though. The default settings of my personality are just not romantic at all and I care very little for specific places, specific settings or specific activities.

I do turn into a romantic piece of sh*t when I really really like a guy and the few that fell into this category at any given point made me imagine very different scenarios of what would constitute an ideal date. That required me knowing them a bit first.

[Shawn]

Basically my life, everyday. I'd hate for this to be my "special date", only because I'm from an Island and so have been there and done all the "Island things" tourists seem to love lol.


And realistically speaking, I'm such a control freak in my everyday life, I'da rather not even have the idea of a perfect date in my head;

As I'd want the other guy to do it.

Just totally take control and surprise me.

I guess that's my idea of a "perfect date". One where I have no control.

I though the same, you can plan something, but if you can suddenly improvise something, and if that become a great idea, that would be a HUGE goal.

And also yes, my country have beaches both size the Caribbean sea and the Pacific Ocean are just 50 miles separated from each other. even if I can see the sea the times I want, I've never been like this with someone special, and that's what I'm talking about.

And also I choose the picnic thing, because generally in my country would be too hot as fuck to do it outside, that's will be the "new thing" for me. I was born in the area of my country that it's used to know as the "cold" area ( the highlands from 1500+ Miles) but I can't be there too often because I live in capital city.