I am bi. How to approach gay guys

[IloveBJ]

Thanks for the answers.
As for gay apps and gay events, that's for sure, but I meant advice in a situation when I am in a neutral place and can't really say who is gay and who is not.
Thanks for your suggestions

[Insertnamehere]

As for gay apps and gay events, that's for sure, but I meant advice in a situation when I am in a neutral place and can't really say who is gay and who is not.

Why would you want to try and hook up (or whatever) with someone in a place where you're not sure who is what? I mean, you can try it, but I don't see the need to risk getting punched in the face or worse.

I suppose you can struck up a conversation with some guy you like and casually ask things like "did you come alone? So where's the GF?" maybe, I don't know.

I don't really know, man, I suck at that, to be honest.

I did meet a gay dude on a party 2 weeks ago (totally gorgeous ) and I could tell he was gay right on the spot, but most of time I can't. The work mate that invited me and was hosting the whole thing was also gay (or bi) but I know that cause he brought his BF to an event a year ago, otherwise I would have never guessed.

Same goes for me too. I can't tell you how many times I've been told to go talk to this girl and that girl or and "this girl likes you, go kiss her"....so it's clear to say people can't pick up I'm gay on the spot.

[kindy64]

gaydar = observed behavior + wishful thinking (NOT ALWAY ACCURATE)

[Doc]

Ive found that approaching guys is pretty easy for me. I just strike up a conversation, get them to laugh and if they seem nice I just ask them. I never ask people that I know or people that know people that I know, Im closeted to my friends and family. I just find a young fit guy that looks cool and start talking to him its easy to meet guys at the college, the gym or a park if you are exercising. I met a few guys when I was in the Army, which was a little scary at the time because it wasn't as gay friendly or at least tolerant as it is now. You may find it easier if you go outside your normal circles, try a joining a soccer league or get a mountain bike. Hook-ups are easy but if you want a relationship I dont know what to tell you.