New to this and don't know where to start.

[Gemini]

You started out asking for advice about where to meet men, and we kind of got sidetracked here lol.

Dating apps are one way to go. I assume there are gay clubs where you live, gay organizations, Pride events, etc. It kind of depends on what you're looking for. From your post, it sounds like you're mainly interested in experimenting sexually right now, rather than looking for a relationship. Are you looking for NSA or more of an FWB situation?

In any case, just be honest with guys upfront. You'll find guys who want the same thing that you do, whatever that turns out to be.