Hi guys im opening this thread because im a little depressed. After 3 years of not having sex , i found someone on grindr and we had sex on his car. He was a traveller and next day he left. I tried to find someone else on this app but nobody is available. All of them they play me, they treat me like shiet. After we trade pictures they ghost me. The thing is i am tall, with nice body, good sense of humor but nobody likes me. And that irritates me the most. I know gay people with ugly bodies that had sex with hot men and i get jealous . Why them and not me that i want it so much?
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I quitted dating apps long time ago. If you want to use the "standard" in those dating apps, what about your face?
Here in my country people say: your face, your fate.
Do you reject guys too? Think about why you reject them,
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What exactly were you expecting for a gay hook up app?
And if it makes you feel any better, I haven't had a root in 11 years, but 2 weeks ago I had a 19yo send me pics and ask me for a quick root on Grindr...as tempted as I would like to meet for coffee first. Last I heard from him.
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I have the same problem, but with dates...they're all ok to fuck me but heaven forbid that someone wants to have a chat or go for a walk with me, or stay on the bed for 5 minutes after they had fun with me.
Anyway, if you're not ugly maybe you need to take better selfies? Even Brad Pitt would look horrible with a shitty angle.
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3 years no sex! In greece?!
I think something is going wrong here.
My advice to you to start going to gym, have some toned/muscled body, then you should have a self confidence, confidence that you (body and soul) is good enough to find people.
Try to hit gay clubs, saunas or cafes where gay gather.
If nothing worked, plan a trip to a gay pride, i know there is at least one in Europe every month.
Wish you all the best.
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