I just replied to this question under a different question:
https://gayspeak.com/showpost.php?p=713383&postcount=6
IDK, if it helps.
Sure my other mental health issues affect relationships, jobs, etc... however these are not the only things that define me as a person. I am now medicated, therapied and all other things. I don't have just mental health issues, I also have physical health issues.
These medical problems do cause me to not go seeking another partnership/marriage/whatever its called. But then its more about practical matters... Do I want to be an anchor to a guy? My limitations are steadily growing, can a guy handle that? Should I let my healthy issues be a burden on someone?
IDK - currently my stance is "No more relationships". Period.
But then I'm tired, ancient, cranky and in the past 2.5 years I have come to enjoy the peace and quiet of being single.
I eat when I want to, I go places when I want to, I don't have to wait to use the bathroom for hours as some partner uses up the mirror time... I eat what I want, sleep diagonally or in the middle of the bed (When my dog allows it), I get dressed when I feel like it, brush my hair when I want to. No airs, no cares, no having to share...
I was in a relationship for 14.5 years this century, and I didn't allow my mental health crap to flood over the relationship. Hell I didn't even take meds and do regular therapy. I accepted my foibles and my partner accepted the screams in the middle of the night, the bouts of "crankiness" and lack of caring about things like combing the hair, blah.
That other post should make it clear that you are not just this or that, there is much more to you than these two things.