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[Adelyn]

Hello all,

I am not sure really how to start. I am a 41 yr old woman and have always thought myself possibly to be bi but have only been with men. This is something that I haven't told any other soul. As I have aged, the feeling of attraction to women has grown stronger, but I have never acted on it. Honestly, I wouldn't know even how to start. I don't want to stuff this feeling down, especially if it would limit my chance at happiness.  Any advice would be appreciated. 

Adelyn

[CellarDweller]

Hello, and welcome to Gay Speak!

Do you know any LGBTQ+ people as friends? If not, I would suggest perhaps using Google to find some local organizations that have group meetings.

If you are Catholic, there is an organization called "Dignity" for LGBTQ+ Catholics.

I joined a bowling league that is mainly LGBTQ, but also has some straight members.