Not a Top or a Bottom, but a Side

[Stefan Romir]

I would be happy to go for the rest of my life with no intercourse, and absolutely all love-making and masturbation! 
I've had some horrific things done to me, in the past, so that's probably the main reason.

[Catnip]

I would be happy to go for the rest of my life with no intercourse, and absolutely all love-making and masturbation! 
I've had some horrific things done to me, in the past, so that's probably the main reason.

I can sympathise with that ... i've had a few close shaves myself ... Love is more important than sex & a relationship that is based firmly on Mutual Respect & Understanding counts for so much ... that's one reason why i'm single ...too many want a partnership based on sex ... speaking for myself ... i'd much rather have (as i said previously) a Platonic relationship with someone who feels the same way .

[ChadCoxRox]

I have seen some crazy shit on Grindr and people being very forward but I've not heard anything quite that bad.

Not sure about the fetish stuff. I have to feel pretty comfortable with someone. I also think a lot of people aren't very good tops which for an inexperienced bottom can make it very painful. That turned out to be my case. Just need to meet the right person.

Sure hope your life is much improved these days!

[Stefan Romir]

I would be happy to go for the rest of my life with no intercourse, and absolutely all love-making and masturbation! 
I've had some horrific things done to me, in the past, so that's probably the main reason.

I can sympathise with that ... i've had a few close shaves myself ... Love is more important than sex & a relationship that is based firmly on Mutual Respect & Understanding counts for so much ... that's one reason why i'm single ...too many want a partnership based on sex ... speaking for myself ... i'd much rather have (as i said previously) a Platonic relationship with someone who feels the same way .

It sounds like you might prefer a "Body Buddy"!

[Catnip]

I would be happy to go for the rest of my life with no intercourse, and absolutely all love-making and masturbation! 
I've had some horrific things done to me, in the past, so that's probably the main reason.

I can sympathise with that ... i've had a few close shaves myself ... Love is more important than sex & a relationship that is based firmly on Mutual Respect & Understanding counts for so much ... that's one reason why i'm single ...too many want a partnership based on sex ... speaking for myself ... i'd much rather have (as i said previously) a Platonic relationship with someone who feels the same way .

It sounds like you might prefer a "Body Buddy"!

Actually ... that's a very good idea ! , if i could find one ... it's pretty difficult to find anyone around here   ... still ... time will tell ... i hope ... 

[allin4oral]

I'm not gay, I am gay leaning BI, and I am a side. I only learned of the term side a couple years ago and when I did it was like a breath of fresh air because I felt pressure to always say I don't like anal. It is not only easier to just say I'm a side but gives me a better sense of acceptance since there is a term for me. I am a cum eating, cock sucking side, and proud of it.