What Am I

[dsnce]

hi, i'm from turkey and i'm new here.I've a problem and want to know your ideas.I've been interested in boys since i was fifteen(both in sexual and emotinal).I've never had a boyfriend and it was making me depressed but my problem changed a lot.Female sexual organ has been exciting me very much for a month and it made me look for men less for sex.But i've still no feeling with females and female body too.I still like guys and confused a lot.What am i?

[albabonzai]

Your confused!!

Hey dsnce, nice to meet you. You need to explore........ Until you are about 30 i think most men struggle with sexuality, although most will not admit to that. You need to try see what makes you feel relaxed and happy with, i know this is not easy but you need to find in your own way someone to explore with. Im not the best for advice as i am only 24, i think someone like marsh or pa is best suited to advice like this. But dont get to worked up about it, your young and still have lots fo time to work out whats right for you, you may be BI or Gay or even Straight.. Life can be very hard to understand and your body and brain dont like to make things easy.


Bazz x

[Mark]

Allo dude. I just simply think there is no easy catogorization of what someone is. For you maybe you are just curious? Just go with the flow and don't focus on what you are. Once you relax and chill being yourself everything else will come easily. (:

[dsnce]

Thank you for your replies, i can't know what am i without living it.So i try not to care about it no more.

[Mark]

Good plan dude!!! :biggrin:

[princealbertofb]

Hello dsnce, I should imagine that being gay in Turkey is not very easy (at least openly) and that if you are interested in love and sex with another man it could be a difficult thing to do). Maybe things happen in the steam baths, or maybe not... Maybe you have found some people on the Internet who are interested like you.
Can you tell us what the conditions are for young gay people in Turkey and especially in Bursa?

[dsnce]

Being gay in turkey is difficult.Fortunately, it's better than the other asian countries like Iran,Iraq.Our problem is only about social life, i think it's because of religion.People think that being gay is a big sin,even modern families can't except it.Family is very important in my country and every parents want their childs to marry and give them grandchilds.Some people laugh at us because they don't know what is gay,they think it's only about sex.Unfortunately it's not exactly wrong(some people on the net are only looking for sex because they think they shouldnt have a darling and go out,if they do that people understand their secret).Of course there are good people who believe in love(gay or straight)but i can't trust people so ı've never met somebody on the net.

[onfire]

I think you need to stop and think your life through till now and ask yourself how many relationships you had with girl? how many times did you get hard when you with man who could you be attracted and sexually desire in your mind therefore nothing to think if you dreaming boys rather than girls after then you need to choose a way about what do you want which way you like to go because you might want to be with men and also you would like to have your own child you might not be happy in straight relationship but you can get so many happiness from the other things like having a child who is yours thats not reall easy to make decision however you might need to have a gay relationship to try do you really want to live your life as a gay god bless you