10-23-2023, 04:51 AM
Hey all,Â
I’m new here but needing to get some advice to calm myself down.  A week and a half ago, I found out that my husband has been sexting guys with text, pics and videos for the entire 5 years of our relationship. It’s never been physical, only digital. It’s been multiple guys a week and some have been with guys who he previously knew from before we were together.  Once I confronted him, he admitted that he has an addiction to this and has tried quitting. After reading so many of the messages and seeing what and how it was sent.  I recognize that it’s really a problem and he has been attending SAA meeting and seeing a therapist.  We have been working through this and I do want to make it work. Â
He’s currently gone in Las Vegas and has been since Wednesday for work and comes home tomorrow.  I know he will not do anything physical with anyone but I just keep replaying everything I read and saw, just thinking it’s going to happen again.  He’s promised me that he is doing anything and everything to make this right with me.Â
My biggest issue is that I’m just struggling with the lack of his trust now and I can’t get this out of my head for even the slightest minute. Â
Any advice on how I can grow and move past this?
Thanks
I’m new here but needing to get some advice to calm myself down.  A week and a half ago, I found out that my husband has been sexting guys with text, pics and videos for the entire 5 years of our relationship. It’s never been physical, only digital. It’s been multiple guys a week and some have been with guys who he previously knew from before we were together.  Once I confronted him, he admitted that he has an addiction to this and has tried quitting. After reading so many of the messages and seeing what and how it was sent.  I recognize that it’s really a problem and he has been attending SAA meeting and seeing a therapist.  We have been working through this and I do want to make it work. Â
He’s currently gone in Las Vegas and has been since Wednesday for work and comes home tomorrow.  I know he will not do anything physical with anyone but I just keep replaying everything I read and saw, just thinking it’s going to happen again.  He’s promised me that he is doing anything and everything to make this right with me.Â
My biggest issue is that I’m just struggling with the lack of his trust now and I can’t get this out of my head for even the slightest minute. Â
Any advice on how I can grow and move past this?
Thanks