04-05-2015, 02:58 PM
Ok so my Husband whom I have married back in July has been asking for a 3 way for the last month or so, I told him several times no that all I want is him. He told me he would love to watch me Top another guy as he sits and watches us.
The issue is I don't want anyone else but him. And the other issue is that he was using Grindr/Adam4Adam app for IDK how many months pretending to be someone else. But when I found all these texts and random guys on his phone he said it was only for fun. I flipped out because he showed someone a video of me that I sent him when we were dating (yes a sexual video). He immediately said it was wrong for him to do. I lost trust in him and was distant from him for a little while.
a month past after that Incident and then he starts asking for a 3 way!? I was baffled because I told him already how I felt with another person in the relationship. We only been married 8 months now and he wants someone else in our bedroom?!
Sometimes I am completely shocked at what he tries to pull and what he wants. I moved to NYC for him because it was easier for his job and I took a New job here that is falling apart so Im stressed because I have to find a job within the next month.
I told all of this and he seems not to really respond. It seems though all he wants is sex sex sex, I complained that I just don't want to stay home and be a home body and for him to expect sex without having us go out and venture off to places and do fun things.
I don't know where to go from here if his behavior continues!
The issue is I don't want anyone else but him. And the other issue is that he was using Grindr/Adam4Adam app for IDK how many months pretending to be someone else. But when I found all these texts and random guys on his phone he said it was only for fun. I flipped out because he showed someone a video of me that I sent him when we were dating (yes a sexual video). He immediately said it was wrong for him to do. I lost trust in him and was distant from him for a little while.
a month past after that Incident and then he starts asking for a 3 way!? I was baffled because I told him already how I felt with another person in the relationship. We only been married 8 months now and he wants someone else in our bedroom?!
Sometimes I am completely shocked at what he tries to pull and what he wants. I moved to NYC for him because it was easier for his job and I took a New job here that is falling apart so Im stressed because I have to find a job within the next month.
I told all of this and he seems not to really respond. It seems though all he wants is sex sex sex, I complained that I just don't want to stay home and be a home body and for him to expect sex without having us go out and venture off to places and do fun things.
I don't know where to go from here if his behavior continues!