Having a tough time finding someone

[GlowingGood]

I am a 42 year old American looking for a partner and I am struggling to find somebody. I do not know many people here where I live and, as I am getting older I fear if I dont get to the heart of the matter up front, I may not. I mean, I have desires and, wants for my relationship and, want to be up front about, my kinks and, fantasies so I dont get to far along and, waste time... Maybe it is petty but, does anyone know a way to express these intimate desires.up front so, I find a similar guy. Maybe a service or, forum. I am trying to go wild and, have fun but, worry another man will.not want those same wild encounters. Am I being silly or, stupid? Let me know!