Anal sex help

[Anonymous]

I have this issue.... love being a bottom but am so scared of having "an accident". I have had this before, where after a good session, the guy had a little bit of s**t on the condom. He didnt care, but for me was hurendous. I know the obvious answer is that you are putting something in ya a** where s**t comes from, but any other tips?

Sorry to be vulgar, but a real problem!!

[marshlander]

Try here

[peterinmalaga]

Consider your diet too. I am sure that Chinese gay men suffer from this problem a lot less. Why? Because they eat a lot rice. Rice has a tendency to constipate you – not in any dangerous way. So your poo will be much firmer if you eat 2 meals of rice on the days when you know you are likely to get fucked in the evening. Some people say apple and yoghurt have a similar effect. But rice is by far the best, especially boiled rice. Hope this helps. And equally avoid food which is likely to loosen your bowels – fruit, veg etc. You can balance your diet by having more fruit and veg on other days and by taking a vitamin pill.

[Anonymous]

Thank you for the advice, anyone else got any tips on anal cleaning?

[fjp999]

Thank you for the advice, anyone else got any tips on anal cleaning?

[COLOR="Purple"]just this: dont over do it!

douching is fine every once in a while but doing it too often can cause problems.

I didnt really know anything about this until I had a physical with a San Francisco doc. Part of the written questions had frequency of douching. I looked at him so oddly... and then it hit me.

They see men douching so often that it has become part of their regular medical check up = problems can get serious!

I would try the natural ways as suggested by peterinmalaga.

What I have also read was that having a poo and cleaning up real good an hour or two before fucking should take care of most things unless you are getting fisted.

Seems you are taking it a bit too far if there was only a tiny bit on a condom. Watching so many porn flicks I am sure that most scenes are cut to clean up but you do see the rare guy wiping off a little bit of something. And that is probably after douching.

Best advice I can give is try the natural ways of diet and an hours poo before, maybe a gentle douche every once in a while and try to relax about a tiny bit showing up everyonce in a while.[/COLOR]

[Anonymous]

Best advice I can give is try the natural ways of diet and an hours poo before, maybe a gentle douche every once in a while and try to relax about a tiny bit showing up everyonce in a while.

Thank you so much for this, but a daft question from a brit.... what is douching? Can you do this yourself?

[fjp999]

Try here

Thank you so much for this, but a daft question from a brit.... what is douching? Can you do this yourself?

[COLOR="Purple"]I think it was right there in the title of the link marshy posted. I think the editing soft for this sight is messing with the posts including words in links.

Douching comes from a french word I believe. Basically it means to put water and a cleansing solution up your butt (or vagina) and holding it for a bit then pushing out the water and anything else that comes out.

The danger is that douching too often will mess with the natural lubricants and other stuff up there to help keep things moving thus causing a catch 22.

btw, there is almost never a daft question but often a daft answer and yes, you do it yourself but you can always do it with a friend [/COLOR]

[marshlander]

... Douching comes from a french word I believe. ...

la douche = shower (rhymes with flower, rather than grower )
se doucher = to take a shower

[gaydnuk]

shit happens lol