RainbowDolphin

[RainbowDolphin]

01/01/2010 Friday 11:45 a.m.

Hi Everyone,
My name is James (online name). I am 37 years old, Chinese Singaporean. I am an ordinary looking guy, a little chubby (80kg) and standing at 5'6". I am a quiet person person by nature, unless i can share about my thoughts and 2-cents worth. Shy, truthful, caring, passionate are some other traits i have (the rest leave it to you to explore in me). I am a nature lover, especially greens. Rain is my favourite moment and i am a dreamer/fantasizer.

I believed i was born gay. Since very young, i always play toys that are for girls. I like dolls, but i am not a sissy. I am not feminine. I am a 100% gentleman. I always like men. I find men are atrractive than women. I think the most beautiful creation on Earth is men's body (in all shapes and sizes).

I have been searching and waiting for Mr. Right for more than 20 years, and i am still hoping and waiting, searching for one. I met a few great guys, had sex (i usually get it from the guys or get laid by these guys) with them and met for a few more times, until they found someone fresh to prey with. Unfortunately, these guys that i have met, neither is a believer in true love. To them, live life freely like a bird, enjoy every one that comes your way. Well, that is the opposite of me, definitely.

Got cheated by a few guys, but they do gave me sweet memories in bed. Well, i take it that i paid for them to give me good service, which they did. After a few times, i am wiser and more stingy. When money is concerned, i can forgo a great guy. Anyway, i am not rich, neither do i earn big bucks. Just an ordinary salary drawing employee. Dream of making more money and be wealthy; but just dream.

Okay, 2010 new year and new resolutions:

• Still hope Mr. Right will come to me soon.
  
• Complete my studies at least for this year's modules.
  
• Be fruitful with my work and be recognised.
  
• Meet good friends, down-to-earth gay friends for coffee, chat or anything.
  
• To run the full marathon (42km).

That's so much about myself. Feel free to ask me questions.
Happy New Year to All...

James from Singapore

[Kiid]

Welcome to the forum James.

Hope you enjoy it here.

[marshlander]

Hello James. What a lovely introduction. There are men who feel the same as you do and I hope you can eventually find a companion. In the meantime there are lots of people with whom you can enjoy being friends, although I have no idea what the opportunities might be like in Singapore for finding them.

Good luck with your ambitions for 2010. I sometimes wish I had ambitions