Ok, I recently got off with a guy who took it very badly when he found out i'd got with 5 guys a year, I told him the oldest person i'd seen was 30 (I was 20 at the time) and he started telling me that I was a slut, probably had HIV and that he thought it was a big mistake sleeping with me. I've never thought of myself like that before, but the aggressive way he was talking to me made me feel like an extremley sick person. I tried justifying it to him saying that I don't go out looking for one night stands, that having sex with less then 1 person every 2 months is relatively low statistically speaking etc etc but he wouldn't have any of it.
I'm not trying to win him back, I just want to know if I'm acting in a bad way or not. It's really starting to bother me in case other people see me as twistedly as he did.
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Just a guess, but perhaps he was upset to discover it didn't mean as much to you as he had imagined.
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Thanks for the replys everyone. I know "sluttys" a very subjective term, I meant in comparison to normal young, gay men.
fredv3b - the thing is he made it perfectly clear to me that it wasn't gonna go anywhere. He even said that he'd probably be down the local bar in a couple of weeks picking up someone else.
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It's hardly any of his business unless you have put his health at risk.
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Anonymous Wrote:fredv3b - the thing is he made it perfectly clear to me that it wasn't gonna go anywhere. He even said that he'd probably be down the local bar in a couple of weeks picking up someone else.
In a couple of weeks, and he calls you slutty at 5 times a year?!
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Only 5 guys in a year? I think you need help but NOT the kind of help he thinks. He's an arsehole and a retard. Can't he see the hypocrisy in his own situation? If I were you, I would never speak to him again. Better luck next time. And who's counting anyway?
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Marshlander - that's the thing I always have regular checkups and nothings come up. He even tried to have sex without a condom (which I point blank refused to do), so if anything he's the one who tried to put my health at risk!
peterinmalaga - lol exactly that's what I thought until I met him.
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I reckon he was mostly pissed off cause i'd slept with someone 10 years older then me, but I don't go out looking for older people, I just go with people I fancy and one of them happened to be 30. Besides a 10 year age gap isn't all that mega. He seems to think that gays 30 or over are very likely to have diseases so I think cause he's bi and hasn't been out in the scene much that he has a very warped view of homosexuality.
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