When I was looking, guys had to be at least my height (6'3") and about my weight. I like the boy next door kind of look, nothing fancy, just cute. I was more after personality than looks, because looks fade and if you don't have a personality, then what are you left with? A whole bunch of nothing.
I'm the odd ball of my friends. I like a little ponch on my guys, not a huge gut, but a little ponch is just fine. 6 packs kind of freak me out, people train their abs too much imo, and when they begin to look the abdomen of a beetle, it just does nothing for me. . . I know I'm weird, but eh.
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i agree, dnt wana fuck action men do we.
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There is this one guy at my gym and I see around my campus that have speed bumps for abs. He was trying to help me get abs like him, and I did do some of his techniques, but modified them so I wouldn't have these freaky exoskeleton appearance.... I've gained weight since then b/c of studying too much and not getting out to the gym as often as I was, but even when I have time to really train, it's never to gain a plastic look.
To me the plastic look means appearances are too important to the person to have any time for anyhing else. I want someone to talk to, not someone to watch, that's what porn is for. it's not fair for me to think like this because not all people that strive to look like that are like that, and I'm sure they are great people, but I just can't get past my views to give them a chance... but it's no bid deal now, I'm not looking.
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About my height or a little bit taller, but only a few inches; more muscular than me (and I'm not exactly thin, although I was years ago); more masculine than me (and I'm not overly effeminate - I'm kinda average really); stronger than me; the one to take charge sexually and keep me feeling safe when I have moments of weakness ...
... someone to keep me physically protected, but who will allow (and need) me to protect them in other ways ...
... and that's what I've got in my boyfriend - he's adorable !!
!?!?! Shadow !?!?!
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