06-12-2010, 01:46 PM
Hey everyone, Ill try and make this short.
Basically my confession is, I don't know if Im truly Gay! Here's why: Basically I am attracted to males. But there are some females I'm really attracted to aswell. Recently there was this "thing" between me and a girl and I can honestly say it was brilliant. We nearly got together (but didn't) and I was a little bit heartbroken that we never because I felt myself around her, she was gorgeous (every lad seemed to think so) and we got on really well but she turned into a little bit of a psycho (haha) which made me re-think whether I wanted to be with her and I chose not to in the end.
With males Im only ever attracted to them and have lust for them, but could never see myself (even when Im 100% comfortable with my sexuality) loving them or anything. With females I am attracted to them (not as much as males) but I could definitely see myself loving them and starting a family with them! So what does that make me? I always thought I was Gay but in the last few years my feelings for girls have been present aswell! I don't know if it's Bisexuality because like I say it's only lust i feel for guys (but admittedely Ive never really gotten to know any of the guys Ive "lusted" for and maybe if I did I would have fallen in love with them).
Any ideas?
Basically my confession is, I don't know if Im truly Gay! Here's why: Basically I am attracted to males. But there are some females I'm really attracted to aswell. Recently there was this "thing" between me and a girl and I can honestly say it was brilliant. We nearly got together (but didn't) and I was a little bit heartbroken that we never because I felt myself around her, she was gorgeous (every lad seemed to think so) and we got on really well but she turned into a little bit of a psycho (haha) which made me re-think whether I wanted to be with her and I chose not to in the end.
With males Im only ever attracted to them and have lust for them, but could never see myself (even when Im 100% comfortable with my sexuality) loving them or anything. With females I am attracted to them (not as much as males) but I could definitely see myself loving them and starting a family with them! So what does that make me? I always thought I was Gay but in the last few years my feelings for girls have been present aswell! I don't know if it's Bisexuality because like I say it's only lust i feel for guys (but admittedely Ive never really gotten to know any of the guys Ive "lusted" for and maybe if I did I would have fallen in love with them).
Any ideas?