I joined a gay group on facebook . This guy requested me as a friend , next minuate he's talking to me , then it became pretty obvious after a few mins that all he wanted was a jerk off buddy . Wanted me to ring him , then when I refused he got funny , asked me if I had a bulge etc . It wasn't long before I hit the BLOCK button . Then I was paranoid about what info he had seen on my profile . I would be very cautious about adding strangers as "friends " on facebook . I guess you don't know who you are talking to and what their intentions area. It puts me off the whole idea of meeting up one to one from someone I met online .
I think if there was to be a group of us to meet up from here or somewhere else that would be different . I am a member of another forum ( not related to being gay) and quite a few of us meet up regular all over the country for a get together , night out , meal and a few drinks . I have made some really great friends this way , and you know there is safety in numbers
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Nope.. I wouldn't meet someone (online or offline) just for sex.
a few reasons:
I'm waaaaay too shy LOL
its not worth the dangers/risks
and i just dont believe in one-night-stands/quick-hookups/sex-only (whatever you want to call it) type things. to me friendship/love would be more important first...then maybe sex
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I am not positive but I suppose I would...the desire to meet someone purely for sex online has never really come up for me. As I worked in a gay bar for many years it was quite easy to meet men so initially I think it would be too much work to do it online...nothing like engaging all your senses at once face to face.
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Hell no. :biggrin: I'd rather have blue balls than expose myself to that kind of danger.
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No. I know there's thousands of people who want to meet a guy for sex. That's perfectly fine. They're taking some risks. Whatever. I'm extremely inexperienced and I know the guy I'd would meet would probably take advantage of me. Even if I was experienced, I still wouldn't want to meet a guy for sex.
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